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โค๏ธ Hello Everyone~! โค๏ธ 
How are you doing ?! I've been doing super well after getting back from my vacation and I've been super eager to answer all of your questions ๐Ÿ˜ I've gotten so many after last weeks AMA so I decided to do an AMA. Just a disclaimer, for the past couple of weeks we've been going over some more serious topics (names/culture etc.) โค๏ธ It's new for me so let me know if you guys are liking it. I'm sure it might be a little too heavy on some but I'd love some feedback! ๐Ÿ˜ƒLet's get started and as always,
don't forget to leave your questions below! ๐Ÿ˜Ž

Hope you guys enjoy this week's newsletter and that
youโ€™re able to learn something new! โค๏ธ๐Ÿ˜Ž
1. Got a TON of replies on the Korean name thing!  
So I've decided to answer them briefly in this section :) Again, this is my genuine advice & I've cross-checked these answers with other Korean friends

1. As you stated last time most people donโ€™t think itโ€™s rude to give yourself a Korean name as long as itโ€™s not something done just as a fashion, what about choosing a name with a similar meaning to the one already given to us even if they donโ€™t sound similar? โค๏ธ 

Thank you so much for your question! Yes, this is also a great way! Again, I really think it is about the reason for needing a Korean name (as I mentioned last week). ๐Ÿ˜ƒ

But make sure that if you are doing this you run it by a Korean or Korean person if you can and make sure that translation is okay! For example if your english name is Sky making your Korean name ํ•˜๋Š˜ makes sense because it is a common name ๐Ÿ˜ƒ But you can probably guess that not everything translates so easy/well hehe. 

As always, just make sure we're being culturally aware and not appropriating because Korean names are cultural at the end of the day & quite a big thing. 

Okie next question is long so I'm going to give you a breather by listening to this song we will take a look at at the end of this newsletter โค๏ธ
2.  In K-dramas they often have an English name besides their Korean name when they live abroad, even registered in their passport, and sometimes some characters have it like a nickname. Such name doesn't feel related to their Korean names, but more like names they chose because they like it. As a foreigner, I think it's cute. But then why choosing a Korean name not related to your name would feel weird? Is it because is only a kdrama thing and most Koreans also think giving yourself an English name not related to your name is weird? ๐Ÿ˜•

Hello! Thank you for your question, I spent a while talking about this with my friends and I think I've come up with the best explanation I can โค๏ธ

Firstly, Korean people with English names in their passports are super rare. Normally, they'd just have the romanization of their Korean name (ex. ๊น€์ค€ํ™˜ would be Kim Jun Hwan) To add any English, you need documentation that you lived abroad with that name (ex. Amerian passport for a dual citizen). Korean people can't just register an English name, so yes-- dramas are unrealistic haha ๐Ÿคฃ

As for names not being related, this is a super complex issue that many of the you actually pointed out! It is that a lot of people in the west will not even make an effort to pronounce Asian/ethnic names correctly. The root of why people choose names like Jessica/Amanda/etc. is because our ethnic names are not considered cool/pretty whereas, even in Korea, other names are seen as really cool. ๐Ÿ˜Ž

Here is a testimony from my friend: When I moved abroad, my teachers told me that my Korean name was too hard to pronounce so they forcibly gave me an English name. I still use it now but looking back I wish I didn't :(

Other people will give themselves an English name when they are learning English (Just like many of you with Korean). But using it as a fashion, Ex. Someone who is into American music just giving themselves an English name for no reason (catch my drift ๐Ÿ˜‰) would be considered weird here too. Dramas are not always so realistic when it comes to things like this so thank you for your question! 

That explanation got so much longer than I thought ๐Ÿ˜ Hope I answered your question <3
2. In dramas Iโ€™ve often seen people refer to non-family members by familial titles, like auntie or mom. What are the rules for this? ๐Ÿคฏ

Great question! ์ด๋ชจ is basically the Korean equivalent to calling someone Auntie! It is pretty common in other Asian cultures as well. You can use this to refer to someone working at a restaurant who is an older lady. If you want to be safe though, just use ์‚ฌ์žฅ๋‹˜ (owner). ๐Ÿด

As for mom, I'm guessing you mean ์–ด๋จธ๋‹ˆ because people wouldn't call someone else's mom ์—„๋งˆ, but they would call them mother. This is commonly used when talking to a friends mom or someone close to you's mom! If you're not close and want to be respectful you would use ์–ด๋จธ๋‹˜. ๐Ÿ˜ƒ

Hope that makes sense! Let me know if you want another newsletter going over all of them :) 
3. Would love to hear the translated lyrics of โ€˜Eve, Psyche and The Bluebeards Wifeโ€™ by Le Sserafim. Maybe even give it a shot at why it was named that? ๐Ÿ˜Ž

I love this song but I had NO IDEA that it had such an interesting name! Let's learn a short phrase (this newsletter is getting so long). 

๋ณด์ง€ ๋ง๋žŒ ๋ณด๊ณ  ํŒŒ๋‚  ๋‘˜๋Ÿฌ์‹ผ ์ด ๊ธˆ๊ธฐ๋“ค yeah๊ทธ๋‚ ์˜ ์ด๋ธŒ์ฒ˜๋ŸผTake it on the chain, I know I like that

Let's break it down~! 

1. ๋ณด์ง€ ๋ง๋žŒ (shortened version of ๋ณด์ง€ ๋ง๋ผ๋ฉด) 
  • ๋ณด์ง€ ๋ง๋ผ๋ฉด means "if you/someone tells me not to look"

2. ๋ณด๊ณ  ํŒŒ (same meaning as ๋ณด๊ณ ์‹ถ๋‹ค)
  • Means "I want to see" or can even mean I miss you!

So this phrase basically means "If you say I can't look, I want to look even more" ๐Ÿคฏ Does that make sense? 

As for the song title, the lyrics above and another english lyric which says "I wish for what's forbidden" gave me a clue into the meaning! โค๏ธ The meaning of the song is kind of talking about wanting what you can't have/wishing for what is forbidden. The title has three people who wished for what was forbidden. 
  • Eve: told not to eat apple, ate apple
  • Psyche: fell in love with a god (as a mortal) 
  • Bluebeards wife: told not to open one door, opened that door

They were all overcome with desire and wished for what was forbidden which is the theme of this song! ๐Ÿคฏ The meaning is so deep.


Hope that helped! Have a great week everyone :) 
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