๋ฐ์ผ๋ฆฌ๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ! ๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ๋ธ” ๋งค๋‹ˆ์ € ๋ฆฐ์ง€์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

๋ฒŒ์จ 23๋…„๋„ ๋๋‚˜๊ฐ€๊ณ  ์žˆ์–ด์š”. 23๋…„์—๋Š” ์ž‘๋…„๋ณด๋‹ค '๋” ๋‚˜์€ ๋‚˜'๊ฐ€ ๋˜์…จ๋‚˜์š”?๐Ÿ˜Š ๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ๋ธ”๋ ˆํ„ฐ์—์„œ ๋งค์ฃผ ์˜์–ด๋ฅผ ๋ฐฐ์› ๋‹ค๋ฉด ๋ถ„๋ช…ํžˆ Better me๊ฐ€ ๋˜์—ˆ์„ ๊ฑฐ์˜ˆ์š”. 100% ์žฅ๋‹ดํ•ด์š”!

11์›”์—๋Š” '์˜์–ด'์™€ '๋ฏธ๊ตญ ์ƒํ™œ'์ด ๋งŒ๋‚˜ ๋ฏธ๊ตญํšŒ์‚ฌ์— ์ทจ์งํ–ˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๋ฐ์ผ๋ฆฌ๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ ์†Œ์‹, '์˜์–ด'์™€ '๊ฐ„ํ˜ธ์‚ฌ'๊ฐ€ ๋งŒ๋‚˜ ํ˜ธ์ฃผ ์˜์ฃผ๊ถŒ์— ๋„์ „ํ•œ๋‹ค๋Š” ๋ฐ์ผ๋ฆฌ๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ ์†Œ์‹์ด ์žˆ์—ˆ์–ด์š”! ๋ณธ์ธ์˜ ์‚ถ๊ณผ ์ปค๋ฆฌ์–ด์— '์˜์–ด'๋ฅผ ๋งŒ๋‚  ๊ธฐํšŒ๋ฅผ ๊ผญ ์ฃผ์„ธ์š”๐Ÿ˜Š ํญํ’์„ฑ์žฅํ• ํ…Œ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ์š”.

๊ทธ๋Ÿผ 151๋ฒˆ์งธ ๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ๋ธ”๋ ˆํ„ฐ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด๋ฒˆ ์ฃผ๋„ ๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ๋ธ”ํ•˜๋Ÿฌ ๊ฐ€์š”๐Ÿ’›
๋ฐ์ผ๋ฆฌ๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ๋ฅผ ์œ„ํ•œ ์ด๋ฒˆ ์ฃผ ๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ๋ธ”๋ ˆํ„ฐ 
1๏ธโƒฃ ์•„๋Š” ๋‹จ์–ด: let๊ณผ look
2๏ธโƒฃ ์•„๋Š” ๋‹จ์–ด: ํ‹ฐ์ฒ˜์กฐ๊ฐ€ ๋ฝ‘์€ 30๋ฌธ์žฅ ๋ฐ˜๋ณต๋“ฃ๊ธฐ
3๏ธโƒฃ ๊ณต๋ถ€ ์ž๋ฃŒ: ์˜์–ด์˜ 8๊ฐ€์ง€ ์˜์—ญ์„ ๋ฐฐ์›Œ์•ผ ํ•˜๋Š” ์ด์œ  โ‘ข
4๏ธโƒฃ ์˜์–ด ์Šต๊ด€: ์ง€๋‚œ 80๋…„ ๋™์•ˆ ์‚ด๋ฉด์„œ ๊นจ๋‹ฌ์€ 20๊ฐ€์ง€ ๊ตํ›ˆ
5๏ธโƒฃ ๋ฌธํ™”: '์•ฝํ˜ผ'์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๋ฏธ๊ตญ ๋ฌธํ™”
1. ์•„๋Š” ๋‹จ์–ด: let๊ณผ look
์˜์–ด๋Š” ๋™์‚ฌ ํ•˜๋‚˜๋กœ ์ˆ˜๋ฐฑ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ์ƒํ™ฉ์„ ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ์–ธ์–ด์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ฐ”๊ฟ” ๋งํ•˜๋ฉด ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์ด๋ฏธ ์•„๋Š” ๋‹จ์–ด๋งŒ์œผ๋กœ๋„ ๋‹ค์–‘ํ•œ ์ƒํ™ฉ์—์„œ ์ž๊ธฐ ์ƒ๊ฐ์„ ํ‘œํ˜„ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๋œป์ด์ฃ . ํ‹ฐ์ฒ˜์กฐ๊ฐ€ 15๋…„ ๋™์•ˆ ๋งค์ผ ์˜์–ด๋ฅผ ๋ฐฐ์šฐ๊ณ  ๊ฐ€๋ฅด์น˜๋ฉฐ ํ•œ๊ตญ ํ•™์Šต์ž์—๊ฒŒ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ํ•„์š”ํ•œ ๋™์‚ฌ 48๊ฐœ๋ฅผ ์ฑ…์œผ๋กœ ์ •๋ฆฌํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜ค๋Š˜์˜ ์•„๋Š” ๋‹จ์–ด๋Š” 'let๊ณผ 'look'์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.


1๏ธโƒฃ ์•„๋Š” ๋‹จ์–ด 'let'์„ ์ง„์งœ ์“ฐ๋ ค๋ฉด?
let์˜ ๊ธฐ๋ณธ ์˜๋ฏธ๋Š” โ€˜๋†“์•„๋‘๋‹ค, ํ—ˆ์šฉํ•˜๋‹คโ€™์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์ด ๋œป์„ ๋ชจ๋ฅธ ์ฑ„ โ€˜let me knowโ€™๋ฅผ ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ์™ธ์›Œ์„œ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜์ฃ . ์šฐ์„  โ€˜๋†“์•„๋‘๋‹คโ€™์˜ let์„ ๋ณด๋ฉด โ€˜๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ํ˜๋Ÿฌ๊ฐ€๊ฒŒ ๋‚ด๋ฒ„๋ ค ๋‘๋‹คโ€™๋ผ๋Š” ์˜๋ฏธ๋กœ โ€˜let it goโ€™๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹ค์Œ์œผ๋กœ โ€˜ํ—ˆ์šฉํ•˜๋‹คโ€™์˜ let์€ โ€˜ํšŒ์‚ฌ์—์„œ ๊ธˆ์š”์ผ์— ์˜ท์„ ํŽธํ•˜๊ฒŒ ์ž…๋„๋ก ํ—ˆ์šฉํ•˜๋‹คโ€™๋ผ๋Š” ์˜๋ฏธ๋กœ โ€˜let us wear jeans on Fridaysโ€™๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์ฃ . ๋ฌธ์ œ๋Š” โ€˜๋†“์•„๋‘๋‹ค, ํ—ˆ์šฉํ•˜๋‹คโ€™๋ผ๋Š” ๋”ฑ ๋–จ์–ด์ง€๋Š” ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋ง ๋‹จ์–ด๊ฐ€ ๋‚˜์˜ค์ง€ ์•Š์•„๋„ ๋น„์Šทํ•œ ์ƒํ™ฉ์—์„œ let์„ ๋– ์˜ฌ๋ฆด ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์–ด์•ผ ํ•˜๋Š” ์ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹จ์–ด๋งŒ ๊ธฐ์–ตํ•˜๋ฉด ์ดˆ๊ธ‰์ด๊ณ , ๋‹จ์–ด์™€ ์ƒํ™ฉ์„ ๋ฌถ์–ด์„œ ๊ธฐ์–ตํ•˜๋ฉด ์ค‘๊ธ‰์ด๋‹ˆ๊นŒ์š”!

๐Ÿ”ถ ๋‹ค์ด์–ผ๋กœ๊ทธ๋กœ 'let' ์ดํ•ดํ•˜๊ธฐ
A: What did you like to do when you were younger?
์–ด๋ ธ์„ ๋•Œ ๋ฌด์—‡์„ ์ข‹์•„ํ–ˆ๋‚˜์š”?
B: My mom used to let us eat ice cream on the weekends.
์—„๋งˆ๊ฐ€ ์ฃผ๋ง์ด๋ฉด ์•„์ด์Šคํฌ๋ฆผ์„ ๋จน๊ฒŒ ํ•ด์ฃผ๊ณค ํ–ˆ์–ด์š”.

๐Ÿ”ถ ๋‹ค์ด์–ด๋ฆฌ๋กœ 'let' ์ดํ•ดํ•˜๊ธฐ
A few weeks ago, I was really mad at my wife. She let the car run out of gas so I had to fill it up before work. It made me late for my morning meeting.
๋ช‡ ์ฃผ ์ „์— ์ €๋Š” ์•„๋‚ด์—๊ฒŒ ์ •๋ง ํ™”๊ฐ€ ๋‚ฌ์–ด์š”. ์•„๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ์ฐจ์— ๊ธฐ๋ฆ„์„ ๋‹ค ์จ์„œ ์ถœ๊ทผ ์ „์— ์ฃผ์œ ๋ฅผ ํ•ด์•ผ ํ–ˆ๊ฑฐ๋“ ์š”. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์•„์นจ ํšŒ์˜์— ๋Šฆ์—ˆ์–ด์š”.
 

2๏ธโƒฃ ์•„๋Š” ๋‹จ์–ด 'look'์„ ์ง„์งœ ์“ฐ๋ ค๋ฉด?
look์˜ ๊ธฐ๋ณธ ์˜๋ฏธ๋Š” โ€˜๋ณด๋‹ค, ๋ณด์ด๋‹คโ€™์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. look ๋’ค์— ์˜ค๋Š” ๋ชจ์–‘์— ๋”ฐ๋ผ ๋‹ค๋ฅด๊ฒŒ ํ•ด์„๋˜์ง€์š”. ํฌ๊ฒŒ 3๊ฐ€์ง€ ๋ชจ์–‘์œผ๋กœ [look + ํ˜•์šฉ์‚ฌ], [look like + ๋ช…์‚ฌ], [look like + ์ฃผ์–ด ๋™์‚ฌ]๊ฐ€ ์žˆ๋Š”๋ฐ์š”. ๊ธฐ๋ณธ๋™์‚ฌ look์€ ๋œป์ด ์–ด๋ ต์ง„ ์•Š์ง€๋งŒ ๋ชจ์–‘์ด ํ—ท๊ฐˆ๋ฆด ๋•Œ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์œผ๋‹ˆ, ๋ชจ์–‘์— ์ง‘์ค‘ํ•ด์„œ ๋‚˜๋งŒ์˜ ๋ฌธ์žฅ์„ ๋งŒ๋“ค์–ด ๋ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์•ผ ์ต์ˆ™ํ•ด์ง€๋‹ˆ๊นŒ์š”. ์ด๋ฒˆ์—๋Š” [look + ํ˜•์šฉ์‚ฌ] ์œ„์ฃผ๋กœ ์˜ˆ๋ฌธ์„ ๋ณด๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ฐธ๊ณ ๋กœ ์ฃผ์–ด๊ฐ€ โ€˜์‚ฌ๋žŒ, ์‚ฌ๋ฌผ, ์ƒํ™ฉโ€™์ธ์ง€๋„ ์ฃผ์˜๋ฅผ ๊ธฐ์šธ์—ฌ ์ฃผ์„ธ์š”. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์•ผ ๋ฌธ์žฅ์„ ๋ณด๋Š” ํž˜์ด ์ƒ๊ฒจ์š”!

๐Ÿ”ถ ๋‹ค์ด์–ผ๋กœ๊ทธ๋กœ โ€˜lookโ€™ ์ดํ•ดํ•˜๊ธฐ
A: Why do you look so happy?
์™œ ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ํ–‰๋ณตํ•ด ๋ณด์—ฌ์š”?
B: I just got some good news from my professor.
๋ฐฉ๊ธˆ ๊ต์ˆ˜๋‹˜์œผ๋กœ๋ถ€ํ„ฐ ์ข‹์€ ์†Œ์‹์„ ๋“ค์—ˆ์–ด์š”.

๐Ÿ”ถ ๋‹ค์ด์–ด๋ฆฌ๋กœ 'look' ์ดํ•ดํ•˜๊ธฐ
Last summer, I picked some fresh strawberries at a farm. They looked so fresh I wanted to eat them right away. I took them home and made strawberry jam.
์ง€๋‚œ์—ฌ๋ฆ„, ์ €๋Š” ๋†์žฅ์—์„œ ์‹ ์„ ํ•œ ๋”ธ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๋•„์–ด์š”. ๋”ธ๊ธฐ๊ฐ€ ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ์‹ ์„ ํ•ด์„œ ๋‹น์žฅ ๋จน๊ณ  ์‹ถ์—ˆ์–ด์š”. ์ง‘์— ๊ฐ€์ ธ๊ฐ€์„œ ๋”ธ๊ธฐ์žผ์„ ๋งŒ๋“ค์—ˆ์–ด์š”.


โœ… ์ข…์ด์ฑ… 1ํ˜ธ <48๊ฐœ ์˜์–ด ๋™์‚ฌ๋กœ ํ”„๋ฆฌํ† ํ‚น ๊นจ๋ถ€์ˆ˜๊ธฐ>์— ์žˆ๋Š” let๊ณผ look์„ ๋‹ค๋ค˜์–ด์š”. ๋” ์ž์„ธํžˆ ๊ณต๋ถ€ํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์€ ๋ถ„์€ ์•„๋ž˜ ๋งํฌ์—์„œ ์‚ดํŽด๋ณด์„ธ์š”.
๐Ÿ“š๊ต๋ณด๋ฌธ๊ณ ๋Š” (์—ฌ๊ธฐ) l ์˜ˆ์Šค24๋Š” (์—ฌ๊ธฐ) l ์•Œ๋ผ๋”˜์€ (์—ฌ๊ธฐ)
2. ์•„๋Š” ๋‹จ์–ด: ํ‹ฐ์ฒ˜์กฐ๊ฐ€ ๋ฝ‘์€ 30๋ฌธ์žฅ ๋ฐ˜๋ณต๋“ฃ๊ธฐ
์š”๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ๋ธ” ์ฝ˜ํ…์ธ ์— ๋‹ด๊ธด ์˜์–ด ๋ฌธ์žฅ์„ <๋ฐ˜๋ณต๋“ฃ๊ธฐ> ์˜์ƒ์œผ๋กœ ๋งŒ๋“ค์–ด๋‹ฌ๋ผ๋Š” ์š”์ฒญ์„ ์ •๋ง ๋งŽ์ด ๋ฐ›์•˜์–ด์š”๐Ÿ˜Š ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋“œ๋””์–ด ์ฒซ ์˜์ƒ์„ ์ œ์ž‘ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. 

๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ๋ธ” <๋ฐ˜๋ณต๋“ฃ๊ธฐ> ์˜์ƒ์€ ์ด๊ฒƒ์ด ๋‹ค๋ฆ…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
โœ… [์•„๋Š” ์˜์–ด]๋กœ ์‰ฝ๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๋ฌธ์žฅ
โœ… ์›์–ด๋ฏผ์ด ์‹ค์ „์—์„œ ๋งŽ์ด ์“ฐ๋Š” ๋ฌธ์žฅ
โœ… ์˜์–ด์Šคํ”ผํ‚น์— ์ง๊ฒฐ๋˜๋Š” ๋ฌธ์žฅ

์ฒซ ์˜์ƒ์€ ํ‹ฐ์ฒ˜์กฐ๊ฐ€ ์ง์ ‘ ๋ฝ‘์€ 30๋ฌธ์žฅ์„ ๋‹ด์•˜์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋ง์ด ๋จผ์ € ๋‚˜์˜ค๋Š”๋ฐ์š”. '์˜์–ด๋กœ ๋ญ˜๊นŒ?'ํ•˜๋ฉฐ ๋‹ต์€ ์œ ์ถ”ํ•ด๋ณด๊ณ  ๋“ค์–ด๋ณด์„ธ์š”. ๊ทธ๋Ÿผ ๋” ๊ธฐ์–ต์— ์˜ค๋ž˜ ๋‚จ์„ ๊ฑฐ์˜ˆ์š” :) ๋Œ“๊ธ€์€ ํŒ€๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ๋ธ”์—๊ฒŒ ํฐ ํž˜์ด ๋˜๋‹ˆ ๊ผญ ๋‚จ๊ฒจ์ฃผ์„ธ์š”. ํ”ผ๋“œ๋ฐฑ๋„ ํ™˜์˜๐Ÿ˜Ž
"์‚ฌ์ ์ธ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๋งŽ์ด ํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋ณธ์ธ์˜ ๋ฐฉ์‹๋งŒ ๊ฐ•์š”ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฐ•์‚ฌ, ๋งŒ๋‚˜๋ณด์‹  ๋ถ„?!"
"๊ฐ•์˜ ์ค‘์— ์‚ฌ์ ์ธ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๋งŽ์ด ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฐ•์‚ฌ, ๋ณธ์ธ์˜ ๋ฐฉ์‹๋งŒ ๊ฐ•์š”ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฐ•์‚ฌ"๋ฅผ ๋งŒ๋‚˜๋ณธ ์  ์žˆ๋‚˜์š”? ๊ทธ๋ ‡๋‹ค๋ฉด ์†ก์ง€* ๋ฐ์ผ๋ฆฌ๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ์˜ ํ›„๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๊ผญ ์ฝ์–ด๋ณด์„ธ์š”. ์ฃผ๋กœ ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ๊ฐ•์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ๋งŒ๋‚˜์„œ ํ•ญ์ƒ ๋ถˆํŽธํ•œ ๋งˆ์Œ์ด์—ˆ๋Œ€์š”.

๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‹ค ๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ๋ธ” [์ฑŒ๋ฆฐ์ง€]์— ์ฐธ์—ฌํ–ˆ๋Š”๋ฐ์š”. '๋งค์ผ ์Šค์Šค๋กœ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ์˜์–ด๊ณต๋ถ€'์—๋งŒ ์ง‘์ค‘๋˜์–ด ์žˆ์–ด์„œ ๋งค์šฐ ๋งŒ์กฑํ•œ๋‹ค๊ณ  ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค๐Ÿ˜Š ํ˜ผ์ž ๊ณต๋ถ€ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๋ชจ๋“  ํ™˜๊ฒฝ์„ธํŒ…์„ ํ•ด์ค€๋‹ค๊ณ ์š”. ์†ก์ง€* ๋ฐ์ผ๋ฆฌ๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ์˜ ์†”์งํ›„๊ธฐ ๋ณด๋Ÿฌ ๊ฐ€์„ธ์š” :)
โœ… ์†ก์ง€* ๋ฐ์ผ๋ฆฌ๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ์˜ ํ›„๊ธฐ 

์ œ๊ฐ€ ๋ชฉํ‘œ๋กœ ํ•˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด๊ณต๋ถ€๋Š” ์‹œํ—˜ ๊ฐ™์€ ๋ชฉ์ ์ด ์žˆ๋Š” ์˜์–ด๊ณต๋ถ€๊ฐ€ ์•„๋‹ˆ๋‹ค ๋ณด๋‹ˆ ๊ทธ๋™์•ˆ ํ•™์›์„ ๊ฐ€๊ธฐ๋ณด๋‹ค๋Š” ์˜จ๋ผ์ธ ํด๋ž˜์Šค๋ฅผ ์ˆ˜๊ฐ•ํ–ˆ์—ˆ๋Š”๋ฐ ๋Š˜ ๋งŒ์กฑ์Šค๋Ÿฌ์šด ๊ฐ•์˜๋Š” ์—†์—ˆ์–ด์š”. ๋งค์ผ ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ถ„๋Ÿ‰์ด ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ๋งŽ๋‹ค๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ์‚ฌ์ ์ธ ์–˜๊ธฐ๊ฐ€ ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ๋งŽ๋‹ค๊ฑฐ๋‚˜, ์„ ์ƒ๋‹˜ ๋ณธ์ธ๋งŒ์˜ ๋ฐฉ์‹์„ ๊ฐ•์š”ํ•˜์‹œ๋ฉด์„œ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๋ฐฉ์‹์€ ๋น„๋‚œํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฐ•์˜๋„ ์žˆ์–ด์„œ ๋“ฃ๊ธฐ์— ๊ทธ์ € ๋ถˆํŽธํ–ˆ๋˜ ์ ๋„ ์žˆ์—ˆ๋˜ ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์•„์š”.

ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ๋ธ”์€ '๋งค์ผ ์Šค์Šค๋กœ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ์˜์–ด๊ณต๋ถ€'์—๋งŒ ์ง‘์ค‘๋˜์–ด ์žˆ์–ด์„œ ์ œ ๋ชฉ์ ์— ์ ํ•ฉํ•˜๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋А๊ปด์กŒ์–ด์š”. ๋งค์ผ ์ปจํ…์ธ ๊ฐ€ ๋‹ฌ๋ผ์ง€๋ฉด์„œ๋„ ์ง€๋‚œ์ฃผ์— ํ–ˆ๋˜ ๋‚ด์šฉ์„ ๋ฆฌ๋ทฐ์นด๋“œ๋กœ ๋ฆฌ๋งˆ์ธ๋“œ ํ•ด์ฃผ์‹œ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ ๋ฐฐ์› ๋˜ ๋‚ด์šฉ์€ ์žŠ์ง€ ์•Š๊ณ  ๋งค์ผ ์ƒˆ๋กœ์šด ๋‚ด์šฉ์œผ๋กœ ์งˆ๋ฆฌ์ง€ ์•Š๊ณ  ๊ณต๋ถ€ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์—ˆ์–ด์š”. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ €๋Š” ๋งค์ผ ์ฒดํฌํ•˜๋ฉด์„œ ํŠธ๋ž˜ํ‚น ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฑธ ์ž˜ ๋ชปํ•˜๋Š”๋ฐ ๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ๋ธ” ํ‹ฐ์ฒ˜๋“ค์ด ์ฃผ๋ง๋งˆ๋‹ค ํ•œ ์ฃผ ๋™์•ˆ ํ–ˆ๋˜ ๊ฒƒ๋“ค์„ ์ฒดํฌํ•ด์„œ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ฃผ์‹œ๋ฉด์„œ ์‘์›๋„ ํ•ด์ฃผ์‹œ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ ๊ณ„์†ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์—ˆ๋˜ ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์•„์š”!

์–ด๋ฆด ๋•Œ ํ•˜๋˜ ๊ตฌ๋ชฌ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๊ฐ€๋ณ๊ฒŒ ์ฆ๊ฒ๊ฒŒ ๋งค์ผ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ์˜์–ด๊ณต๋ถ€๋ผ์„œ ๋งŒ์กฑํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ณ„์†ํ•˜๋ฉด์„œ ์˜์–ด๊ณต๋ถ€ํ•˜๋Š” ์Šต๊ด€์„ ์œ ์ง€ํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์–ด์š”!
3. ๊ณต๋ถ€ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•: ์˜์–ด์˜ 8๊ฐ€์ง€ ์˜์—ญ์„ ๋ฐฐ์›Œ์•ผ ํ•˜๋Š” ์ด์œ  โ‘ข
๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ๋ธ”์€ [์•„๋Š” ์˜์–ด + 8๊ฐ€์ง€ ์˜์—ญ + ์˜์–ด์Šต๊ด€]์œผ๋กœ ์˜์–ด์‹ค๋ ฅ์„ ๋Š˜๋ ค์ฃผ๋Š” ์˜จ๋ผ์ธ ์˜์–ดํ•™์›์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค! ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ๋ฐ ์™œ [8๊ฐ€์ง€ ์˜์—ญ]์„ ๋ชจ๋‘ ๋ฐฐ์›Œ์•ผ ํ• ๊นŒ์š”? ์ฒซ์งธ๋Š” ์˜์–ด์˜ ๊ตฌ๋ฉ์„ ๋ฉ”์šฐ๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด์„œ, ๋‘˜์งธ๋Š” ์˜์–ด ๋ฐฐ์›€์ด ์ง€๋ฃจํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด์„œ ์•Œ๋ ค๋“œ๋ ธ์ฃ . ์ด์ œ ์„ธ ๋ฒˆ์งธ ์ด์œ ๋ฅผ ์•Œ๋ ค๋“œ๋ฆฌ๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜์–ด ์‹ค๋ ฅ์„ ๋Š˜๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์‹ถ๋‹ค๋ฉด ๊ผญ ์ฝ์–ด๋ณด์„ธ์š”.
๐Ÿ’Œ์ž‘์„ฑ: ํ‹ฐ์ฒ˜์กฐ @dailylearner_

์…‹์งธ, ํŠน์ • ํ•™์Šต๋ฒ•์— ๋งน์‹ ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๊ณ  ๋‚˜๋งŒ์˜ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์„ ์ฐพ๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด์„œ

ํ•œ๊ตญ์˜ ์˜์–ด ๊ต์œก ์‹œ์žฅ์—๋Š” ์ฒœ๋ฌธํ•™์ ์ธ ๋ˆ์ด ํ๋ฅธ๋‹ค. ์ด ์‹œ์žฅ์—์„œ ์‚ด์•„๋‚จ์œผ๋ ค๋ฉด ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์˜์–ด ๊ต์œก ์„œ๋น„์Šค์™€ ์ฐจ๋ณ„ํ™”๋˜๋Š” ํŠน๋ณ„ํ•œ ๋ฌด๊ธฐ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์–ด์•ผ ํ•œ๋‹ค. ์ƒํ™ฉ์ด ์ด๋ ‡๋‹ค ๋ณด๋‹ˆ '๊ธฐ์ ์˜ ํ•™์Šต๋ฒ•'์ด ์Ÿ์•„์ง„๋‹ค. ๋™์ข… ์—…๊ณ„์— ์žˆ๋Š” ๋‚˜๋Š” ์ด๋ฅผ ๋น„ํŒํ•  ์˜๋„๋Š” ์—†๋‹ค. ํ•™์Šต์ž๊ฐ€ ๋” ๋น ๋ฅด๊ฒŒ, ๋” ์ ์€ ๋น„์šฉ์„ ๋“ค์—ฌ, ๋” ํšจ๊ณผ์ ์œผ๋กœ ์˜์–ด๋ฅผ ๋ฐฐ์šธ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ์„œ๋น„์Šค๊ฐ€ ์žˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด ๊ทธ์ชฝ์œผ๋กœ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ๋ชฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๊ฒŒ ๋‹น์—ฐํ•˜๋‹ˆ๊นŒ. ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๊ทธ๋ ‡์ง€ ์•Š์€๋ฐ๋„ ์˜์–ด ๊ต์œก ์„œ๋น„์Šค๊ฐ€ ๋‹จ์ˆœํžˆ ๋งˆ์ผ€ํŒ… ๋นจ(?)๋กœ๋งŒ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„ ๋ชจ์€๋‹ค๋ฉด ๋ฌธ์ œ๋Š” ์‹ฌ๊ฐํ•ด์ง„๋‹ค.

์œ„์—์„œ ์ถฉ๋ถ„ํžˆ ์„ค๋ช…ํ–ˆ๋“ฏ์ด 1๊ฐ€์ง€ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์œผ๋กœ ์˜์–ด์˜ 8๊ฐ€์ง€ ์˜์—ญ์„ ๋ชจ๋‘ ๋Š˜๋ฆด ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ํ•™์Šต๋ฒ•์€ ์• ์ดˆ์— ์กด์žฌํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋Š”๋‹ค. 8๊ฐ€์ง€ ์˜์—ญ์„ ์ „๋ถ€ ๋‹ค๋ฃจ์ง€ ์•Š๋Š” ์˜์–ด ๊ต์œก ์„œ๋น„์Šค๊ฐ€, "์ด ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์œผ๋กœ ์˜์–ด๋ฅผ ๋ฐฐ์šฐ๋ฉด ์˜์–ด๋ฅผ ์ž˜ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋‹ค"๋ผ๊ณ  ๊ด‘๊ณ ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ 50%๋Š” ๋งž๊ณ  100% ํ‹€๋ฆฐ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ๋‹ค. ์˜์–ด๋ฅผ ์ž˜ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ํ•˜๋ฉด ์•ˆ ๋˜๊ณ , ์˜์–ด์˜ ํŠน์ • ์˜์—ญ์„ ์ž˜ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ˆ˜์ •ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•œ๋‹ค. ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์‹ค์ „์˜์–ด๋ฅผ ์ œ๋Œ€๋กœ ๊ฒฝํ—˜ํ•˜์ง€ ๋ชปํ•œ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์˜์–ด์˜ '๋งŒ๋ณ‘ํ†ต์น˜์•ฝ'์„ ์ฐพ์•„ ์ง€๊ธˆ๋„ ์˜จ/์˜คํ”„๋ผ์ธ์„ ์„œ์„ฑ๊ฑฐ๋ฆฐ๋‹ค.

๋ฌผ๋กœ ๋‚˜๋„ ๊ธฐ์ ์˜ ํ•™์Šต๋ฒ•์„ ์ฐพ์•„ ํ—ค๋งจ ์ ์ด ์žˆ๋‹ค. ํ•˜๋‚˜์˜ ๊ธฐ์ ์˜ ํ•™์Šต๋ฒ•์—์„œ๋Š” '๋ฐœ์Œ' ์˜์—ญ์„ ๋Š˜๋ ธ๊ณ , ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ํ•˜๋‚˜์˜ ๊ธฐ์ ์˜ ํ•™์Šต๋ฒ•์—์„œ๋Š” '๋“ฃ๊ธฐ' ์˜์—ญ์˜ ๋„์›€์„ ๋ฐ›์•˜๋‹ค. ์ดํ›„ ๋˜ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๊ธฐ์ ์˜ ํ•™์Šต๋ฒ•์—์„œ๋Š” '๋งํ•˜๊ธฐ'์˜ ๊ฐ๊ฐ์„ ๊ธธ๋ €๊ณ , ๋งˆ์ง€๋ง‰ ๊ธฐ์ ์˜ ํ•™์Šต๋ฒ•์—์„œ๋Š” '์“ฐ๊ธฐ'์˜ ํ•ต์‹ฌ์„ ๋ฐฐ์šธ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์—ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ฌผ๋ก  ์ด๊ฑด ๊ธ์ •์ ์ธ ๊ฒฐ๊ณผ๋ฅผ ๋ƒˆ์„ ๋•Œ์ด๊ณ , ์ค‘๊ฐ„์ค‘๊ฐ„์— ๋‚ด๊ฒŒ ๋งž์ง€ ์•Š์•„ ์‹คํŒจํ–ˆ๋˜ ๊ธฐ์ ์˜ ํ•™์Šต๋ฒ•๋„ ์ ์ง€ ์•Š์•˜๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋ฉด์„œ ๋ˆ๊ณผ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์„ ํ—ˆ๋น„ํ–ˆ๋‹ค. ์ˆ˜๋งŽ์€ ๊ธฐ์ ์˜ ํ•™์Šต๋ฒ•์„ ๊ฒฝํ—˜ํ•œ ๋์— ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ๋‚ด๋ฆฐ ๊ฒฐ๋ก ์€ '๊ธฐ์ ์˜ ํ•™์Šต๋ฒ•์€ ์—†๋‹ค'์ด๋‹ค.

์ด์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ์˜์–ด๋ฅผ 8๊ฐ€์ง€ ์˜์—ญ์œผ๋กœ ๋‚˜๋ˆ ์„œ ์ ‘ํ•˜๋ฉด 'ํŠน์ • ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•'์„ ๋งน์‹ ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๊ฒŒ ๋œ๋‹ค. ํ•˜๋‚˜์˜ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์ด ํ•œ๋‘ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ์˜์—ญ์—๋Š” ๋„์›€์ด ๋˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์ดํ•ดํ•˜๋˜, ์ด ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•๋งŒ ์•Œ๋ฉด ์˜์–ด๊ฐ€ ๋๋‚  ๊ฑฐ๋ผ๋Š” ๊ธฐ๋Œ€๋ฅผ ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๊ฒŒ ๋œ๋‹ค. ๋Œ€์‹ ์— ์ด ์˜์–ด ๊ต์œก ์„œ๋น„์Šค์—์„œ๋Š” ํŠน์ • ์˜์—ญ์„ ๋Š˜๋ฆด ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์„ ๊ฑฐ๋ผ๋Š” ์•ˆ๋ชฉ์ด ์ƒ๊ธด๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋ฉด์„œ ์˜์–ด ๊ต์œก ์„œ๋น„์Šค์— ํœ˜๋‘˜๋ฆฌ์ง€ ์•Š๊ณ , ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ํ•„์š”์— ๋”ฐ๋ผ ์˜์–ด ๊ต์œก ์„œ๋น„์Šค๋ฅผ ์ด์šฉํ•˜๋Š” ํž˜์„ ๊ฐ–๊ฒŒ ๋œ๋‹ค. ์˜์–ด ๋ฐฐ์›€ ์ฃผ๋„๊ถŒ์„ ๋นผ์•—๊ธฐ์ง€ ์•Š๋Š”๋‹ค. ๊ฒฐ๊ตญ ํŠน์ • ํ•™์Šต๋ฒ•์„ ๋งน๋ชฉ์ ์œผ๋กœ ๋”ฐ๋ฅด์ง€ ์•Š๊ณ , ๋‚ด๊ฒŒ ๋งž๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•๊ณผ ๋‚ด๊ฒŒ ํ•„์š”ํ•œ ์˜์—ญ์„ ์Šค์Šค๋กœ ์„ ํƒํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๊ฒŒ ๋œ๋‹ค.

์˜์–ด์˜ 8๊ฐ€์ง€ ์˜์—ญ์„ ๋ฐฐ์›Œ์•ผ ํ•˜๋Š” ์ด์œ ๋ฅผ ์ •๋ฆฌํ•ด ๋ณด์ž. ์ฒซ์งธ๋Š” ์˜์–ด์˜ ๊ตฌ๋ฉ์„ ๋ฉ”์šฐ๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด์„œ, ๋‘˜์งธ๋Š” ์˜์–ด ๋ฐฐ์›€์ด ์ง€๋ฃจํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด์„œ, ์…‹์งธ๋Š” ํŠน์ • ํ•™์Šต๋ฒ•์— ๋งน์‹ ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๊ณ  ๋‚˜๋งŒ์˜ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์„ ์ฐพ๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด์„œ์ด๋‹ค. ์˜์–ด๋ฅผ ์ž˜ํ•˜๋ ค๋ฉด ์ด ์„ธ ๊ฐ€์ง€๋ฅผ ๊ผญ ๊ธฐ์–ตํ•˜์ž.
4. ์˜์–ด ์Šต๊ด€: ์ง€๋‚œ 80๋…„ ๋™์•ˆ ์‚ด๋ฉด์„œ ๊นจ๋‹ฌ์€ 20๊ฐ€์ง€ ๊ตํ›ˆ
์›”์ŠคํŠธ๋ฆฌํŠธ์˜ ์œ„๋Œ€ํ•œ ์˜ˆ์ธก๊ฐ€๋กœ ๋ถˆ๋ฆฌ๋Š” '๋ฐ”์ด๋Ÿฐ ์œˆ'์ด ์ง€๋‚œ 80๋…„ ๋™์•ˆ ์‚ด๋ฉด์„œ ๊นจ๋‹ฌ์€ 20๊ฐœ์˜ ๊ตํ›ˆ์ด ๋ฐœํ‘œํ–ˆ์—ˆ์–ด์š”. ์ €๋Š” ์ตœ๊ทผ์— ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋ง๋กœ ๋œ ๊ธฐ์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ๋ฐœ๊ฒฌํ–ˆ๋Š”๋ฐ์š”.(2014๋…„๋„ ๊ธฐ์‚ฌ) ๋ฐ์ผ๋ฆฌ๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ์™€ ๊ณต์œ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์–ด ์˜์–ด๋„ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ๊ฐ€์ ธ์™”์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. 20๊ฐœ ์ค‘ '์˜์–ด ๊ณต๋ถ€ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š” ๋‚˜'์—๊ฒŒ๋„ ๋„์›€๋˜๋Š” ๊ตฌ์ ˆ ์œ„์ฃผ๋กœ ๊ฐ€์ ธ์™”์–ด์š”๐Ÿ˜Š 20๊ฐœ๊ฐ€ ๋ชจ๋‘ ๋ณด๊ณ  ์‹ถ๋‹ค๋ฉด ์•„๋ž˜ ๋งํฌ์—์„œ ํ™•์ธํ•˜์„ธ์š”.

1. Concentrate on finding a big idea that will make an impact on the people you want to influence.
์˜ํ–ฅ์„ ์ฃผ๊ณ  ์‹ถ์€ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ์˜ํ–ฅ์„ ์ค„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ํฐ ์•„์ด๋””์–ด๋ฅผ ์ฐพ๋Š” ๋ฐ ์ง‘์ค‘ํ•˜์„ธ์š”.

6. Evolve. Try to think of your life in phases so you can avoid a burn-out.
๋ฐœ์ „ํ•˜์„ธ์š”. ๋ฒˆ์•„์›ƒ์„ ํ”ผํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋„๋ก ์ธ์ƒ์„ ๋‹จ๊ณ„์ ์œผ๋กœ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜์„ธ์š”.

7. Travel extensively. Try to get everywhere before you wear out.
ํญ๋„“๊ฒŒ ์—ฌํ–‰ํ•˜์„ธ์š”. (๋‚˜์ด๋“ค์–ด) ์ง€์น˜๊ธฐ ์ „์— ์–ด๋””๋“  ๊ฐ€๋ณด๋ ค๊ณ  ๋…ธ๋ ฅํ•˜์„ธ์š”.

11. Take the time to give those who work for you a pat on the back when they do good work.
ํ•จ๊ป˜ ์ผํ•˜๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ์ž˜ํ–ˆ์„ ๋•Œ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์„ ๋‚ด์–ด ๋“ฑ์„ ๋‘๋“œ๋ ค ์ฃผ์„ธ์š”. (๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•จ์„ ํ‘œํ˜„ํ•˜์„ธ์š”.)

13. At the beginning of every year think of ways you can do your job better than you have ever done it before. Write them down and look at what you have set out for yourself when the year is over.
๋งค๋…„ ์—ฐ์ดˆ์— ์ด์ „๋ณด๋‹ค ๋” ์ž˜ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์„ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ด ๋ณด์„ธ์š”. ์ด๋ฅผ ์ ์–ด๋‘๊ณ  ํ•œ ํ•ด๊ฐ€ ๋๋‚ฌ์„ ๋•Œ ์Šค์Šค๋กœ ์–ด๋–ค ๊ฒƒ์„ ์‹œ๋„ํ–ˆ๋Š”์ง€ ์‚ดํŽด๋ณด์„ธ์š”.

14. The hard way is always the right way. Never take shortcuts. Shortcuts can be construed as sloppiness, a career killer.
์–ด๋ ค์šด ๊ธธ์ด ํ•ญ์ƒ ์˜ณ์€ ๊ธธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ง€๋ฆ„๊ธธ์„ ํƒํ•˜์ง€ ๋งˆ์„ธ์š”. ์ง€๋ฆ„๊ธธ์€ ๋ถ€์ฃผ์˜๋กœ ๊ฐ„์ฃผ๋  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์œผ๋ฉฐ ์ปค๋ฆฌ์–ด๋ฅผ ๋ง์น˜๋Š” ์ง€๋ฆ„๊ธธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

16. When seeking a career as you come out of school or making a job change, always take the job that looks like it will be the most enjoyable. If it pays the most, youโ€™re lucky. If it doesnโ€™t, take it anyway.
ํ•™๊ต๋ฅผ ์กธ์—…ํ•˜๊ณ  ์ง์—…์„ ์ฐพ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ์ด์งํ•  ๋•Œ๋Š” ํ•ญ์ƒ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ์žฌ๋ฏธ์žˆ์„ ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์€ ์ง์—…์„ ์„ ํƒํ•˜์„ธ์š”. ๋ˆ์„ ๋งŽ์ด ๋ฐ›๋Š”๋‹ค๋ฉด ์šด์ด ์ข‹์€ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ ‡์ง€ ์•Š๋”๋ผ๋„ ์–ด์จŒ๋“  ์žก์œผ์„ธ์š”.

17. There is a perfect job out there for everyone. Most people never find it. Keep looking. The goal of life is to be a happy person, and the right job is essential to that.
๋ชจ๋“  ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์—๊ฒŒ ์™„๋ฒฝํ•œ ์ง์—…์€ ์„ธ์ƒ์— ์กด์žฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋Œ€๋ถ€๋ถ„์˜ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€ ์ ˆ๋Œ€ ์ฐพ์ง€ ๋ชปํ•˜์ฃ . ๊ณ„์† ์ฐพ์•„๋ณด์„ธ์š”. ์ธ์ƒ์˜ ๋ชฉํ‘œ๋Š” ํ–‰๋ณตํ•œ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ๋˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด๋ฉฐ, ์ด๋ฅผ ์œ„ํ•ด์„œ๋Š” ๋‚˜์—๊ฒŒ ๋งž๋Š” ์ง์—…์ด ํ•„์ˆ˜์ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

19. Every year, try doing something you have never done before that is totally out of your comfort zone.
๋งค๋…„ ์ž์‹ ์˜ ์•ˆ์ „์ง€๋Œ€๋ฅผ ์™„์ „ํžˆ ๋ฒ—์–ด๋‚œ ํ•œ ๋ฒˆ๋„ ํ•ด๋ณด์ง€ ์•Š์€ ์ผ์„ ํ•ด๋ณด์„ธ์š”.

์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋ง๋กœ ๊ฐ„๋‹จํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋˜์–ด ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ธฐ์‚ฌ๋Š” (์—ฌ๊ธฐ)์—์„œ, ์˜์–ด๋กœ ๋œ ๊ธฐ์‚ฌ๋Š” (์—ฌ๊ธฐ)์—์„œ ํ™•์ธํ•˜์„ธ์š”!
5. ๋ฌธํ™”: '์•ฝํ˜ผ'์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๋ฏธ๊ตญ ๋ฌธํ™”
ํ•œ๊ตญ์€ ์—ฐ์• ํ•œ ๋’ค ๋ฐ”๋กœ ๊ฒฐํ˜ผ์„ ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ, ๋ฏธ๊ตญ์€ ์•ฝํ˜ผํ•˜๊ณ  ๊ฒฐํ˜ผ์œผ๋กœ ์ง„ํ–‰ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ๊ฐ€ ๋งŽ๋‹ค๊ณ  ํ•ด์š”. ์•ฝํ˜ผ์€ ๋ณดํ†ต ์–ธ์ œ ํ•˜๋Š”์ง€, ์–ด๋–ค ๋ฐฉ์‹์œผ๋กœ ํ•˜๋Š”์ง€, ์–ด๋–ค ๋ฐ˜์ง€๋ฅผ ์ฃผ๋Š”์ง€ ๊ถ๊ธˆํ•˜์‹œ์ฃ ? ์•„๋ž˜ ์›์–ด๋ฏผ ํ‹ฐ์ฒ˜ Kayla๊ฐ€ ์“ด ๊ธ€์„ ์ฝ์œผ๋ฉฐ ๋ฌธํ™”์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์•Œ์•„๋ด…์‹œ๋‹ค. ๋ฌธํ™”๊ธ€์€ ๋‹จ์–ด ํ•˜๋‚˜, ๋ฌธ๋ฒ• ํ•˜๋‚˜ ๋”ฐ์ ธ๊ฐ€๋ฉฐ ์ •๋…ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์•„๋„ ๊ดœ์ฐฎ์•„์š”. ์ญ‰ ํ›‘์–ด๋ณด๋ฉฐ ๊ฐ€๋ณ๊ฒŒ ๊ณต๋ถ€ํ•˜์…”๋„ ์ถฉ๋ถ„ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค๐Ÿ‘  


โ“โ— ์•„๋ž˜ ๊ธ€์„ ์ฝ๊ณ  2๊ฐ€์ง€ ์งˆ๋ฌธ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๋ณธ์ธ ์ƒ๊ฐ์„ ์˜์–ด๋กœ ๋งํ•ด๋ณด์„ธ์š”!

Q1) Would you like to propose to someone or be proposed to? Why or why not?

ํ”„๋Ÿฌํฌ์ฆˆํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋ฐ›๊ณ  ์‹ถ์€๊ฐ€์š”? ๊ทธ ์ด์œ ๋Š”์š”? 


Q2) How do these traditions differ from Korean traditions? 

์ด๋Ÿฌํ•œ ๋ฏธ๊ตญ ์•ฝํ˜ผ์˜ ์ „ํ†ต์ ์ธ ๋ชจ์Šต์ด ํ•œ๊ตญ๊ณผ๋Š” ๋ฌด์—‡์ด ๋‹ค๋ฅธ๊ฐ€์š”?

๐Ÿ’‘Engagement Traditions in the US

์ „ํ†ต์ ์ธ ๋ฏธ๊ตญ ์•ฝํ˜ผ์˜ ๋ชจ์Šต


Getting engaged is a big deal in the U.S. Most couples usually get engaged after 2-5 years of dating. If you get engaged earlier, people might think youโ€™re rushing. Most people wonโ€™t wait 8 or 9 years to get engaged.

๋ฏธ๊ตญ์—์„œ๋Š” ์•ฝํ˜ผ์ด ํฐ ์˜๋ฏธ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ๋‹ค. ๋Œ€๋ถ€๋ถ„์˜ ์ปคํ”Œ์€ ๋ณดํ†ต 2~5๋…„ ์ •๋„ ์‚ฌ๊ท„ ํ›„์— ์•ฝํ˜ผํ•œ๋‹ค. ์ผ์ฐ ์•ฝํ˜ผํ•˜๋ฉด ์กฐ๊ธˆ ์„œ๋‘๋ฅธ๋‹ค๋Š” ์ธ์ƒ์„ ์ค„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋‹ค. ๋Œ€์ฒด๋กœ ์•ฝํ˜ผ๊นŒ์ง€ 8~9๋…„์”ฉ ๊ธฐ๋‹ค๋ฆฌ์ง€๋Š” ์•Š๋Š”๋‹ค.


One of the most important parts about being proposed to is that itโ€™s a surprise. Of course, the couple will talk about their plans to get married, but ultimately the man typically sets up the proposal.

ํ”„๋Ÿฌํฌ์ฆˆ๋ฅผ ๋ฐ›์„ ๋•Œ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ๊ฑด ์ƒ๋Œ€๋ฅผ ๊นœ์ง ๋†€๋ผ๊ฒŒ ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด๋‹ค. (์„œํ”„๋ผ์ด์ฆˆ!) ๋ฌผ๋ก  ๊ฒฐํ˜ผ ๊ณ„ํš์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์„œ๋กœ ์–˜๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๋‚˜๋ˆ„๊ธฐ๋„ ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ, ํ”„๋Ÿฌํฌ์ฆˆ๋Š” ๋‚จ์ž๊ฐ€ ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒŒ ์ผ๋ฐ˜์ ์ด๋‹ค.


In the past, most men proposed privately at a dinner or the location of their first date. These days, many people propose publicly at Disney World or at sporting events. It depends on the couple. 

๊ณผ๊ฑฐ์—๋Š” ๋‚จ์ž๊ฐ€ ์ €๋… ์‹์‚ฌ ์žฅ์†Œ๋‚˜ ์ฒซ ๋ฐ์ดํŠธ ์žฅ์†Œ์—์„œ ๋น„๊ณต๊ฐœ๋กœ ํ”„๋Ÿฌํฌ์ฆˆํ–ˆ๋‹ค. ์š”์ฆ˜์€ ๋””์ฆˆ๋‹ˆ์›”๋“œ๋‚˜ ์Šคํฌ์ธ  ๊ฒฝ๊ธฐ์žฅ๊ฐ™์ด ๊ณต๊ฐœ์ ์ธ ์žฅ์†Œ์—์„œ ํ”„๋Ÿฌํฌ์ฆˆํ•˜๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋„ ๋งŽ๋‹ค. ์ปคํ”Œ์— ๋”ฐ๋ผ ๋‹ค๋ฅด๋‹ค.


When a man proposes, he should get down on one knee and hold the ring out to his girlfriend. He asks her, โ€œWill you marry me?โ€ And she hopefully says yes. When it comes to the ring, some couples shop together, but mostly the man buys a diamond ring by himself. 

ํ”„๋Ÿฌํฌ์ฆˆํ•  ๋•Œ๋Š” ๋‚จ์ž๊ฐ€ ํ•œ ์ชฝ ๋ฌด๋ฆŽ์„ ๊ฟ‡๊ณ  ์—ฌ์ž์นœ๊ตฌ์—๊ฒŒ ๋ฐ˜์ง€๋ฅผ ๋‚ด๋ฐ€์–ด์•ผ ํ•œ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  โ€œ๋‚˜๋ž‘ ๊ฒฐํ˜ผํ•ด ์ค„๋ž˜?โ€ ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋ฌป๋Š”๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋…€๊ฐ€ โ€˜์ข‹์•„โ€™๋ผ๊ณ  ๋‹ตํ•ด์ฃผ๊ธธ ๋ฐ”๋ผ๋ฉด์„œ. ๋ฐ˜์ง€๋Š” ๊ฐ™์ด ์‚ฌ๋Ÿฌ ๊ฐ€๋Š” ์ปคํ”Œ๋„ ์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ, ๋ณดํ†ต์€ ๋‚จ์ž๊ฐ€ ๋‹ค์ด์•„๋ชฌ๋“œ ๋ฐ˜์ง€๋ฅผ ์ค€๋น„ํ•œ๋‹ค.


Typically, only the woman wears the engagement ring, but both wear their wedding ring after the wedding ceremony. We also take engagement photos in America. These showcase the couple and the ring and are used to announce the proposal. Weโ€™re usually engaged for about 12 to 18 months before we have the wedding. 

 ์ผ๋ฐ˜์ ์œผ๋กœ ์•ฝํ˜ผ๋ฐ˜์ง€๋Š” ์—ฌ์ž๋งŒ ๋ผ๊ณ , ๊ฒฐํ˜ผ์‹ ํ›„์— ๋‚จ๋…€ ๋ชจ๋‘ ๊ฒฐํ˜ผ๋ฐ˜์ง€๋ฅผ ๋‚€๋‹ค. ๋˜ ๋ฏธ๊ตญ์—์„œ๋Š” ์•ฝํ˜ผ ์‚ฌ์ง„๋„ ์ฐ๋Š”๋‹ค. ์ด ์‚ฌ์ง„์€ ์ปคํ”Œ๊ณผ ๋ฐ˜์ง€๋ฅผ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ฃผ๋ฉด์„œ ์ฒญํ˜ผํ–ˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ์‚ฌ์‹ค์„ ์•Œ๋ ค์ค€๋‹ค. ๊ฒฐํ˜ผํ•˜๊ธฐ ์ „ ์•ฝํ˜ผ ๊ธฐ๊ฐ„์€ ๋ณดํ†ต 12~18๊ฐœ์›” ์ •๋„๋‹ค.


Of course, there are exceptions to all of these traditions. Sometimes the woman will propose. Sometimes the ring isnโ€™t a diamond. There is a lot of variety. But these are some of the most traditional engagement traditions in the U.S. 

๋ฌผ๋ก  ์ด๋Ÿฌํ•œ ์ „ํ†ต์—๋„ ์˜ˆ์™ธ๋Š” ์žˆ๋‹ค. ๋•Œ๋•Œ๋กœ ์—ฌ์ž๊ฐ€ ํ”„๋Ÿฌํฌ์ฆˆํ•˜๊ธฐ๋„ ํ•œ๋‹ค. ๋ฐ˜์ง€๊ฐ€ ๋‹ค์ด์•„๋ชฌ๋“œ๊ฐ€ ์•„๋‹ ๋•Œ๋„ ์žˆ๋‹ค. ์‚ฌ๋ก€๋Š” ๋งค์šฐ ๋‹ค์–‘ํ•˜๋‹ค. ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์ด๊ฒƒ๋“ค์€ ๋ฏธ๊ตญ์—์„œ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ์ „ํ˜•์ ์ด๊ณ  ์ „ํ†ต์ ์ธ ์•ฝํ˜ผ์˜ ๋ชจ์Šต์ด๋‹ค.

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