์ผ๊ณผ ์‚ถ์—์„œ ๋งŽ์€ ๊ณ ๋ฏผ๊ณผ ์ŠคํŠธ๋ ˆ์Šค๋ฅผ ๋ฐ›์„ ์ Š์€ ๋‚ด๊ฒŒ ๊ผญ ๋“ค๋ ค์ฃผ๊ณ ํ”ˆ ์กฐ์–ธ
์ œ์ธ์ด ๋ณด๋‚ด๋Š”
MOBI LETTER
June 5th, 2023 | Vol. 32

์•ˆ๋…•ํ•˜์„ธ์š” ํšŒ์‚ฌ์˜์–ด ์ œ์ธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.


ํ˜น์‹œ ํ˜„์žฌ ๋Œ€ํ•™์ƒ, ๋Œ€ํ•™์›์ƒ์ด์‹ ๊ฐ€์š”? ์กธ์—…ํ•œ ์ง€ ์ข€ ๋œ ์ง์žฅ์ธ์ด์‹ ๊ฐ€์š”? ๊ณผ๊ฑฐ๋กœ ๋Œ์•„๊ฐ€ ์กธ์—…์„ ์•ž๋‘” ์ Š์€ ๋‚˜ ์ž์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ์ถฉ๊ณ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด ๋ญ๋ผ๊ณ  ์ „ํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ๋‚˜์š”? ์˜ค๋Š˜์€ Vox์˜ ์ตœ๊ทผ ๊ธฐ์‚ฌ <Post-graduation advice youโ€™ll actually use>๋ฅผ 9๋ช…์˜ ์ „๋ฌธ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€ ์กธ์—…์„ ์•ž๋‘” ์ด๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ์ฃผ๋Š” ์กฐ์–ธ 9๊ฐ€์ง€๋ฅผ ์‚ดํŽด๋ณด๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

1. Think about work as something that supports your life, not the other way around

Rather than think of your job as the central axis around which your post-grad life will orbit, start with your vision of a life well-lived, and then consider how your work can support that vision. 

์ผ์„ ์‚ถ์˜ ๋ฐ˜๋Œ€ ๊ฐœ๋…์ด ์•„๋‹Œ ์‚ถ์„ ์ง€ํƒฑํ•˜๋Š” ์š”์†Œ๋กœ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜์ž.

์ผ์„ ์กธ์—… ํ›„ ์ธ์ƒ์˜ ์ค‘์‹ฌ์ถ•์œผ๋กœ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜์ง€ ๋ง๊ณ , ์ž˜ ์‚ฌ๋Š” ์‚ถ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๋น„์ „๋ถ€ํ„ฐ ์„ธ์šด ๋‹ค์Œ ์—…๋ฌด๊ฐ€ ๊ทธ ๋น„์ „์„ ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ์ง€์›ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š”์ง€ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ด ๋ณด๋„๋ก ํ•˜์ž.

  • central axis - ์ค‘์‹ฌ์ถ•, ex) The boat pivoted on its central axis. ๋ณดํŠธ๊ฐ€ ์ค‘์‹ฌ ์ถ•์„ ์ค‘์‹ฌ์œผ๋กœ ํšŒ์ „ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.


2. Remember that your job will never love you back

A company is not your friend! Donโ€™t be fooled at a first job into doing so much work you exhaust yourself or burn out because youโ€™re thinking of your boss or the company as a buddy.

์ง์žฅ์€ ๊ฒฐ์ฝ” ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ์‚ฌ๋ž‘ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋Š”๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๊ธฐ์–ตํ•˜์ž

ํšŒ์‚ฌ๋Š” ๋‚˜์˜ ์นœ๊ตฌ๊ฐ€ ์•„๋‹ˆ๋‹ค! ์ฒซ ์ง์žฅ์—์„œ ์ƒ์‚ฌ๋‚˜ ํšŒ์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ์นœ๊ตฌ๋กœ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜์—ฌ ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ๋งŽ์€ ์ผ์„ ํ•˜๋‹ค๊ฐ€ ์ง€์น˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ํƒˆ์ง„ํ•˜์ง€ ๋ง์ž.

  • Think of someone as a buddy - ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๋ฅผ ์นœ๊ตฌ๋กœ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜๋‹ค, ex) He never thought of her as a buddy. ๊ทธ๋Š” ๊ทธ๋…€๋ฅผ ์นœ๊ตฌ๋กœ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•œ ์ ์ด ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.


3. Consider how youโ€™ll make a mark on the world

Find your purpose in lifeโ€™ is a common refrain at graduation ceremonies. If only it were that simple. A purpose in life is cultivated, not found. 

์„ธ์ƒ์— ์–ด๋–ค ์กฑ์ ์„ ๋‚จ๊ธธ์ง€ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ด ๋ณด์ž.

'์ธ์ƒ์˜ ๋ชฉ์ ์„ ์ฐพ์•„๋ผ'๋Š” ์กธ์—…์‹ ์ถ•์‚ฌ๋Š” ์กธ์—…์‹์žฅ์—์„œ ํ”ํžˆ ๋“ค์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๋ง์ด๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ์‰ฝ๋‹ค๋ฉด ์–ผ๋งˆ๋‚˜ ์ข‹์„๊นŒ? ์ธ์ƒ์˜ ๋ชฉ์ ์€ ์ฐพ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ผ ๋งŒ๋“ค์–ด ๊ฐ€๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด๋‹ค. 

  • common refrain - ํ”ํžˆ ๋“ค์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๋ง, ex) The myth about diet coke is a common refrain. ๋‹ค์ด์–ดํŠธ ์ฝœ๋ผ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ์˜คํ•ด๋Š” ์ž˜๋ชป๋œ ์ƒ์‹์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.


4. Have constant conversations about money

Weโ€™ve been told for far too long that it is rude, tacky, and taboo to talk about how much we make, how much we spend, and whether or not we invest. But staying silent only benefits corporations โ€” not us.

๋ˆ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๋Š์ž„์—†์ด ๋Œ€ํ™”ํ•˜๊ธฐ

์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ์˜ค๋žซ๋™์•ˆ ์ˆ˜์ž…, ์ง€์ถœ, ํˆฌ์ž ์—ฌ๋ถ€์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋ฌด๋ก€ํ•˜๊ณ  ์ดŒ์Šค๋Ÿฝ๊ณ  ๊ธˆ๊ธฐ์‹œ๋˜๋Š” ์ผ์ด๋ผ๋Š” ๋ง์„ ๋“ค์–ด์™”๋‹ค. ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์นจ๋ฌตํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ๊ธฐ์—…์—๋งŒ ๋„์›€์ด ๋  ๋ฟ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ์—๊ฒŒ ๋„์›€์ด ๋˜์ง€ ์•Š๋Š”๋‹ค.

  • tacky -  ์ดŒ์Šค๋Ÿฌ์šด, ์‹ธ๊ตฌ๋ ค ๊ฐ™์€ ex) That dress looks tacky. ๊ทธ ๋“œ๋ ˆ์Šค๋Š” ์ดŒ์Šค๋Ÿฌ์›Œ ๋ณด์—ฌ์š”.


5. Accept that plans will change

The advice that I wish Iโ€™d taken โ€” and still remind myself of every day, if weโ€™re being honest โ€” is staying open to the idea that your path, your interests, your needs, and your ambitions will change. And thatโ€™s a good thing. There can be a lot of pressure to find the โ€˜rightโ€™ path and stick to that plan, so venturing off a so-called track is spun as failure rather than growth or curiosity. Sometimes itโ€™s not giving up, itโ€™s changing direction. Itโ€™s not failing at a dream, itโ€™s meeting a new version of yourself and embracing new ones. Letting yourself change ensures your work and ambition grow as you do.

๊ณ„ํš์ด ๋ณ€๊ฒฝ๋  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Œ์„ ์ธ์ •ํ•˜์ž.

์†”์งํžˆ ๋งํ•˜์ž๋ฉด, ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ๋“ค์—ˆ์œผ๋ฉด ์ข‹์•˜์„ ์กฐ์–ธ์ด์ž ์ง€๊ธˆ๋„ ๋งค์ผ ๋˜์ƒˆ๊ธฐ๋Š” ์กฐ์–ธ์€ ์ž์‹ ์˜ ์ง„๋กœ, ๊ด€์‹ฌ์‚ฌ, ํ•„์š”, ์•ผ๋ง์ด ๋ฐ”๋€” ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ์ƒ๊ฐ์„ ํ•ญ์ƒ ์—ด์–ด๋‘๋ผ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ ์ข‹์€ ์ผ์ด๋‹ค. '์˜ฌ๋ฐ”๋ฅธ' ๊ธธ์„ ์ฐพ๊ณ  ๊ทธ ๊ณ„ํš์„ ๊ณ ์ˆ˜ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•œ๋‹ค๋Š” ์••๋ฐ•๊ฐ์ด ์ปค์„œ ์†Œ์œ„ ์ •ํ•ด์ง„ ๊ธธ์—์„œ ๋ฒ—์–ด๋‚˜๋Š” ๋ชจํ—˜์€ ์„ฑ์žฅ์ด๋‚˜ ํ˜ธ๊ธฐ์‹ฌ์ด ์•„๋‹Œ ์‹คํŒจ๋กœ ์น˜๋ถ€๋  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋‹ค. ํฌ๊ธฐํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ผ ๋ฐฉํ–ฅ์„ ๋ฐ”๊พธ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด๋‹ค. ๊ฟˆ์„ ์ด๋ฃจ์ง€ ๋ชปํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ผ ์ƒˆ๋กœ์šด ์ž์‹ ์„ ๋งŒ๋‚˜๊ณ  ์ƒˆ๋กœ์šด ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋ฐ›์•„๋“ค์ด๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด๋‹ค. ์Šค์Šค๋กœ๋ฅผ ๋ณ€ํ™”์‹œํ‚ค๋ฉด ์ผ๊ณผ ์•ผ๋ง๋„ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ์„ฑ์žฅํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋‹ค.

  • embrace - ๋ฐ›์•„๋“ค์ด๋‹ค, ์•„์šฐ๋ฅด๋‹ค, ํฌ์˜นํ•˜๋‹ค ex) Many people are unwilling to embrace new technologies. ๋งŽ์€ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ์ƒˆ๋กœ์šด ๊ธฐ์ˆ ์„ ๋ฐ›์•„๋“ค์ด๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๊บผ๋ คํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.


6. Continue your education at the University of You

If you donโ€™t designate goals for yourself and your life, you will get sucked into someone elseโ€™s goals and end up living someone elseโ€™s life. So create your own curriculum at the University of You, and whenever someone makes you feel like youโ€™re doing life wrong, just remember that theyโ€™re in another major at another school.

๋‚˜๋ผ๋Š” ๋Œ€ํ•™์—์„œ์˜ ๊ณต๋ถ€๋ฅผ ๋ฉˆ์ถ”์ง€ ๋ง์ž.

์ž์‹ ๊ณผ ์ธ์ƒ์˜ ๋ชฉํ‘œ๋ฅผ ์ •ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์œผ๋ฉด ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์˜ ๋ชฉํ‘œ์— ํœฉ์“ธ๋ ค ๊ฒฐ๊ตญ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์˜ ์‚ถ์„ ์‚ด๊ฒŒ ๋œ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‹ˆ ๋‚˜๋ผ๋Š” ๋Œ€ํ•™๊ต์—์„œ ์ž์‹ ๋งŒ์˜ ์ปค๋ฆฌํ˜๋Ÿผ์„ ๋งŒ๋“ค์ž. ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€ ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ์ž˜๋ชป ์‚ด๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋А๋ผ๋„๋ก ๋งŒ๋“ ๋‹ค๋ฉด ๊ทธ๋“ค์€ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ํ•™๊ต์˜ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์ „๊ณต์„ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ์‚ฌ์‹ค์„ ๊ธฐ์–ตํ•˜์ž.

  • designate goals - ๋ชฉํ‘œ๋ฅผ ์ •ํ•˜๋‹ค ex) I want to designate my own goals. ๋‚˜๋งŒ์˜ ๋ชฉํ‘œ๋ฅผ ์ •ํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.


7. Donโ€™t compare yourself with others at work

Remember that the only competition you have at work is with yourself. My second piece of advice is understanding that comparison is the thief of joy. 

์ง์žฅ์—์„œ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ ์ž์‹ ์„ ๋น„๊ตํ•˜์ง€ ๋ง์ž

์ง์žฅ์—์„œ์˜ ์œ ์ผํ•œ ๊ฒฝ์Ÿ์€ ์ž์‹ ๊ณผ์˜ ๊ฒฝ์Ÿ์ด๋ผ๋Š” ์‚ฌ์‹ค์„ ๊ธฐ์–ตํ•˜์ž. ๋‘ ๋ฒˆ์งธ ์กฐ์–ธ์€ ๋น„๊ต๋Š” ๊ธฐ์จ์˜ ๋„๋‘‘์ด๋ผ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด๋‹ค. 

  • piece of advice - ํ•œ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ์กฐ์–ธ ex) Can I give you a piece of advice? ํ•œ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ์กฐ์–ธ์„ ํ•ด๋„ ๋ ๊นŒ์š”?


8. Set a budget immediately

Be sure to implement a budget so you know that you have enough money to cover all your expenses and save some for a rainy day.

์ฆ‰์‹œ ์˜ˆ์‚ฐ์„ ์ •ํ•˜๋ผ.

๋‚˜์˜ ๋ชจ๋“  ๊ฒฝ๋น„๋ฅผ ์ถฉ๋‹นํ•˜๊ณ  ๋งŒ์ผ์˜ ๊ฒฝ์šฐ๋ฅผ ๋Œ€๋น„ํ•ด ์ผ๋ถ€๋ฅผ ์ €์ถ•ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ์ถฉ๋ถ„ํ•œ ๋ˆ์ด ์žˆ๋„๋ก ์˜ˆ์‚ฐ์„ ์งœ๋„๋ก ํ•˜์ž.

  • rainy day - ๊ถํ•  ๋•Œ, ๋งŒ์ผ์˜ ๊ฒฝ์šฐ ex) I have some money staked out for a rainy day. ๋น„์˜ค๋Š” ๋‚ ์„ ๋Œ€๋น„ํ•ด ๋ˆ์„ ๋ชจ์•„๋‘์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.


9. Break larger goals into smaller ones

As you prepare to graduate, please know that itโ€™s normal to feel overwhelmed by the sudden shift into a career and the pressure to have everything together. The key is to break down the big picture into smaller, more achievable snapshots. As soon as you get out of bed in the morning, ask yourself, โ€˜Whatโ€™s one thing I can do today to bring me closer to my goal?โ€™ By committing to one small task at a time, youโ€™ll be building up your mental muscles while you make progress. 

์กธ์—…์„ ์ค€๋น„ํ•˜๋ฉด์„œ ๊ฐ‘์ž‘์Šค๋Ÿฌ์šด ์ปค๋ฆฌ์–ด๋กœ์˜ ์ „ํ™˜๊ณผ ๋ชจ๋“  ๊ฒƒ์„ ์ค€๋น„ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•œ๋‹ค๋Š” ์••๋ฐ•๊ฐ์— ์••๋„๋‹นํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ์ •์ƒ์ด๋‹ค. ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์€ ํฐ ๊ทธ๋ฆผ์„ ๋” ์ž‘๊ณ  ๋‹ฌ์„ฑ ๊ฐ€๋Šฅํ•œ ๋ถ€๋ถ„์œผ๋กœ ์„ธ๋ถ„ํ™”ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด๋‹ค. ์•„์นจ์— ์ผ์–ด๋‚˜์ž๋งˆ์ž '์˜ค๋Š˜ ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ๋ชฉํ‘œ์— ๋” ๊ฐ€๊นŒ์›Œ์ง€๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ์ผ์ด ๋ฌด์—‡์ผ๊นŒ'๋ผ๊ณ  ์Šค์Šค๋กœ์—๊ฒŒ ๋ฌผ์–ด๋ณด์ž. ํ•œ ๋ฒˆ์— ํ•œ ๊ฐ€์ง€์”ฉ ์ž‘์€ ์ผ๋ถ€ํ„ฐ ์‹ค์ฒœํ•ด ๋‚˜๊ฐ€๋ฉด ์ง„์ „์„ ์ด๋ฃจ๋ฉด์„œ ์ •์‹ ์  ๊ทผ์œก์„ ํ‚ค์šธ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋‹ค.

  • achievable - ์„ฑ์ทจ(๋‹ฌ์„ฑ)ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ex) Opinions differ as to whether this goal is achievable. ์ด ๋ชฉํ‘œ๋ฅผ ๋‹ฌ์„ฑํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š”์ง€์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด์„œ๋Š” ์˜๊ฒฌ์ด ๋ถ„๋ถ„ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
์™ธ๊ตญ๊ณ„ ํšŒ์‚ฌ, ํ•ด์™ธ ์ธํ„ด์‹ญ, ์›Œํ‚น ํ™€๋ฆฌ๋ฐ์ด ๋“ฑ ๊ทผ์‚ฌํ•œ ์˜๋ฌธ ์ด๋ ฅ์„œ ํ•œ ํ†ต์ฏค ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด ๋„์ „ํ•ด ๋ณผ ๋งŒํ•˜๊ฒ ์ฃ ? ์˜๋ฌธ ์ด๋ ฅ์„œ์˜ ๊ธฐ๋ณธ, ์ž์ฃผ ํ•˜๋Š” ์‹ค์ˆ˜, ๋‚˜๋ฅผ ๋‹๋ณด์ด๊ฒŒ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ํŒ์„ 45๋ถ„๊ฐ„์˜ ์‹ค์‹œ๊ฐ„ ์ฒจ์‚ญ์„ ํ†ตํ•ด ๊ผผ๊ผผํ•˜๊ฒŒ ์งš์–ด ๋“œ๋ฆฝ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ž˜ ๋‹ค๋“ฌ์€ ์˜๋ฌธ ์ด๋ ฅ์„œ๋กœ ๋‚˜์˜ ์ปค๋ฆฌ์–ด ๊ธฐํšŒ๋ฅผ ๊ธ€๋กœ๋ฒŒ ๋ฌด๋Œ€๋กœ ๋„“ํ˜€๋ณด์„ธ์š”. 
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