๋ฐ์ผ๋ฆฌ๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ! ๋งค๋‹ˆ์ € ๋ฆฐ์ง€์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค๐Ÿ™ƒ ๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ๋ธ”์˜ 4๋ฒˆ์งธ ์ƒ์ผ์„ ์ถ•ํ•˜ํ•ด์ฃผ์„ธ์š”๐Ÿฅณ ๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ๋ธ”์€ 4๋…„ ๋™์•ˆ ๋งŽ์€ ๋ณ€ํ™”๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์—ˆ์–ด์š”. 4~6๋ช… ๊ทธ๋ฃน์ˆ˜์—…์œผ๋กœ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ–ˆ๋˜ ๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ๋ธ”์ด ์ง€๊ธˆ์€ ํ•œ ๋‹ฌ์— 1,000๋ช…์ด ๋„˜๋Š” ๋ฐ์ผ๋ฆฌ๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ๋ฅผ ๊ฐ•์˜, ์ฑŒ๋ฆฐ์ง€, ์ „์ž์ฑ…์œผ๋กœ ๋งŒ๋‚˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค! '์‹ค์ „์˜์–ด'๋กœ ๊ธฐํšŒ๋ฅผ ์–ป์€ ๋ถ„๋“ค์˜ ํ›„๊ธฐ๋„ ์ ์  ๋งŽ์ด ๋“ค๋ ค์˜ค๊ณ  ์žˆ๊ณ ์š”. ์•ž์œผ๋กœ๋„ ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์˜ ๋งˆ์ง€๋ง‰ ์‹ค.์ „.์˜์–ดํ•™์›์ด ๋˜์–ด์ฃผ๋Š” '๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ๋ธ”'์ด ๋ ๊ฒŒ์š”. ๊ทธ๋Ÿผ 126๋ฒˆ์งธ ๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ๋ธ”๋ ˆํ„ฐ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ณ ๊ณ !!
๐Ÿ‘‡์ด๋ฒˆ ์ฃผ๋„ ๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ๋ธ”ํ•˜๊ธฐ!
โ‘  ๊ธฐ๋ณธ๋‹จ์–ด : [unhealthy]์˜ 4๊ฐ€์ง€ ํ™œ์šฉ๋ฒ•
โ‘ก ๊ณต๋ถ€๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•/์ž๋ฃŒ : ๋ฒš๊ฝƒ ๊ด€๋ จ ์˜์–ดํ‘œํ˜„, ๋ฐ์ดํŠธ๋กœ ๋ณด๋Š” ํ•œ๊ตญ์™€ ๋ฏธ๊ตญ ๋ฌธํ™”์˜ ์ฐจ์ด์  
โ‘ข ์˜์–ด์Šต๊ด€ : ์—ฌํ–‰์ง€์—์„œ ์˜์–ด ์ ‘ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ธฐํšŒ ๋งŒ๋“ค๊ธฐ
1. ๊ธฐ๋ณธ๋‹จ์–ด๋กœ ๋งํ•˜๊ธฐ
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๊ธฐ๋ณธ๋‹จ์–ด 'unhealthy'
'unhealthy'์˜ ๊ธฐ๋ณธ์˜๋ฏธ๋Š” โ€˜๊ฑด๊ฐ•ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์€, ๋ชธ์— ์ข‹์ง€ ์•Š์€โ€™์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. healthy(๊ฑด๊ฐ•ํ•œ)์— un์ด ๋ถ™์–ด not์˜ ๋‰˜์•™์Šค๊ฐ€ ์ถ”๊ฐ€๋˜๋Š” ๊ฑฐ์ฃ . ์—ฌ๊ธฐ๊นŒ์ง€๋Š” ๋Œ€๋ถ€๋ถ„ ์•Œ๊ณ  ์žˆ์„ ํ…๋ฐ์š”. ๋„๋Œ€์ฒด ์™œ ๋œป์€ ์•„๋Š”๋ฐ, ๋ง๋กœ๋Š” ๋‚˜์˜ค์ง€ ์•Š์„๊นŒ์š”? ์ฃผ๋œ ์ด์œ ๋Š” unhealthy์™€ ์–ด์šธ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋‹จ์–ด๋ฅผ ๋ชจ๋ฅด๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. unhealthy๋Š” ์Œ์‹์—๋งŒ ์“ฐ์ง€ ์•Š๊ณ , ์Šต๊ด€, ๋ผ์ดํ”„์Šคํƒ€์ผ ๋“ฑ์—๋„ ๊ฐ€๋Šฅํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋“ ์š”. ์‹ค์ œ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๋Š” 4๊ฐ€์ง€ ์˜ˆ๋ฌธ์„ ๋ณด๋ฉฐ ํ™•์ธํ•ด ๋ด…์‹œ๋‹ค.

1๏ธโƒฃ That meal looks pretty unhealthy.
(๊ทธ ์Œ์‹ ์ง„์งœ ๊ฑด๊ฐ•์— ์•ˆ ์ข‹์•„ ๋ณด์ธ๋‹ค.)
โœTJT: [์Œ์‹ + unhealthy] ๋ฌธ์žฅ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. unhealthy์™€ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ์ž˜ ๋ถ™์–ด ๋‹ค๋‹ˆ๋Š” ๋‹จ์–ด๋Š” ๋จน๋Š” ๊ฑฐ์ฃ . ๊ณ ๊ธฐํŒจํ‹ฐ๊ฐ€ ๋‘๊บผ์šด ํ–„๋ฒ„๊ฑฐ์™€ ๊ธฐ๋ฆ„๊ธฐ๊ฐ€ ๋งŽ์€ ๊ฐ์žํŠ€๊น€, ์•ก์ƒ ๊ณผ๋‹น์ด ๋‹ค๋Ÿ‰ ํ•จ์œ ๋œ ์Œ๋ฃŒ์ˆ˜๊ฐ€ ๋ณด์ด๋ฉด ๊ณง์žฅ unhealthy๋ฅผ ๋– ์˜ฌ๋ ค ์ฃผ์„ธ์š”!

2๏ธโƒฃ Smoking is such an unhealthy habit.
(ํก์—ฐ์€ ์ •๋ง ๋ชธ์— ์ข‹์ง€ ์•Š์€ ์Šต๊ด€์ด๋‹ค.)
โœTJT: ์ด๋ฒˆ์—๋Š” [์Šต๊ด€ + unhealthy] ๋ฌธ์žฅ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋ง๋„ โ€˜๊ฑด๊ฐ•์— ์•ˆ ์ข‹์€ ์Šต๊ด€โ€™์ด๋ž€ ํ‘œํ˜„์„ ์ž์ฃผ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๋“ฏ ์˜์–ด๋„ โ€˜unhealthy habitโ€™์„ ์ž์ฃผ ์“ฐ์ฃ . ๋งค์ผ ์ €๋…์— ๋งฅ์ฃผ๋ฅผ ๋งˆ์‹œ๋Š” ์Šต๊ด€, ์ƒˆ๋ฒฝ ๋Šฆ๊ฒŒ๊นŒ์ง€ ์ž ์„ ์ž์ง€ ์•Š๋Š” ์Šต๊ด€ ๋“ฑ์— unhealthy๊ฐ€ ์ œ๊ฒฉ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

3๏ธโƒฃ A sedentary lifestyle is quite unhealthy.
(์•‰์•„์„œ ์ผํ•˜๋Š” ๋ผ์ดํ”„์Šคํƒ€์ผ์€ ๊ฑด๊ฐ•์— ์ƒ๋‹นํžˆ ํ•ด๋กญ๋‹ค.)
โœTJT: ์„ธ ๋ฒˆ์งธ๋Š” [๋ผ์ดํ”„์Šคํƒ€์ผ + unhealthy] ๋ฌธ์žฅ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์Šต๊ด€์—์„œ ํ™•์žฅ๋œ ์ƒํ™œ ๋ฐฉ์‹์—๋„ unhealthy๊ฐ€ ์ž˜ ์–ด์šธ๋ฆฌ์ฃ . sedentary๋Š” ์ฃผ๋กœ ์•‰์•„์„œ ์ง€๋‚ด๋Š” ์ƒํ™œ ๋ฐฉ์‹์„ ๋งํ•˜๋Š”๋ฐ์š”. ์ข…์ผ ์‚ฌ๋ฌด์‹ค ์˜์ž์— ์•‰์•„์„œ ์ผํ•˜๋Š” ์ง์ข…์— ์žˆ์œผ๋ฉด ์ด๋Ÿฐ ๋ผ์ดํ”„์Šคํƒ€์ผ์„ ๊ฐ€์งˆ ์ˆ˜๋ฐ–์— ์—†์ฃ . ์ด๋Ÿฐ ์ƒํ™ฉ์—๋„ unhealthy๋ฅผ ์“ธ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. 

4๏ธโƒฃ It's unhealthy not to share your emotions.
(๊ฐ์ •์€ ๊ณต์œ ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ๊ฑด๊ฐ•์— ์ข‹์ง€ ์•Š๋‹ค.)
โœTJT: ๋์œผ๋กœ [๊ฐ์ • ๊ณต์œ  + unhealthy] ๋ฌธ์žฅ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฐ์ •์„ ๊ณต์œ ํ•˜๋“ฏ ์–ด๋–ค ๋™์ž‘์ด๋‚˜ ํ–‰์œ„์—๋„ unhealthy๊ฐ€ ์•ˆ์„ฑ๋งž์ถค์ด๋„ค์š”. ์‚ฌ์‹ค โ€˜๊ฐ์ • ๊ณต์œ โ€™๋กœ ๊ธฐ์–ตํ•˜๊ธฐ๋ณด๋‹ค [Itโ€™s unhealthy to ๋™์‚ฌ / Itโ€™s unhealhty not to ๋™์‚ฌ] ํŒจํ„ด์œผ๋กœ ๊ธฐ์–ตํ•˜๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ์ถ”์ฒœํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ชธ์— ํ•ด๋กœ์šด ๊ฑฐ๋ผ๋ฉด ๋ฌด์—‡์ด๋“  ๋„ฃ์–ด๋„ ๊ดœ์ฐฎ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

โ˜บ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๊ธฐ๋ณธ๋‹จ์–ด ๊ณต๋ถ€ํ•˜๋Ÿฌ ๊ฐ€๊ธฐ (๋‹จ์–ด๋ฅผ ํด๋ฆญํ•˜์„ธ์š”!)
haveโ‘  / take / set / run / find / see / lookput / feel / haveโ‘ก / away /
โ˜… ๋ฐ์ผ๋ฆฌ๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ ํ›„๊ธฐ of the week โ˜…
์ด ์ „์ž์ฑ…์œผ๋กœ๋Š”
๊พธ์ค€ํ•œ ์˜์–ด๊ณต๋ถ€ ๋ฌด์กฐ๊ฑด ๊ฐ€๋Šฅํ•ด์š”!
๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ๋ธ”๊ณผ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ์˜์–ด๋ฅผ ์ ‘ํ•˜๋ฉด ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„๋„ ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ๋ณ€ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค! [์—๋ฐ€๋ฆฌ, ํŒŒ๋ฆฌ์— ๊ฐ€๋‹ค ์•”๊ธฐ ์ „์ž์ฑ…]์„ ๊ตฌ๋งคํ•œ ๋ฐ์ผ๋ฆฌ๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ๊ฐ€ ๋‚จ๊ฒจ์ค€ ํ›„๊ธฐ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ์š”.

โœ…์ด** ๋ฐ์ผ๋ฆฌ๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ๊ฐ€ ์ง์ ‘ ๋‚จ๊ธด ํ›„๊ธฐ
์ €๋Š” ์‹œ์ฆŒ ํ†ตํ•ฉ๋ณธ์œผ๋กœ ์ƒ€๋Š”๋ฐ์š”. ์ผ๋‹จ ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ์œ ์šฉํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค..์ง„์งœ ์ƒ๊ฐ์€ ํ–ˆ์ง€๋งŒ ์‚ฌ์ „์—์„œ๋„ ์ž˜ ์ฐพ์„ ์ˆ˜ ์—†์—ˆ๋˜ ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฌ์šด ํ‘œํ˜„๋“ค๋งŒ ์‹น์‹น ๋ฝ‘์•„๋†“์œผ์…จ๊ณ ์š”. ๊ทธ๋ ‡๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ์–ด๋ ต์ง€๋„ ์•Š๊ณ  ๊ฐ€๋ณ๊ฒŒ ๊พธ์ค€ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ํ• ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ์ปจํ…์ธ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹คโ€ฆ ๊ฑฐ๊ธฐ๋‹ค๊ฐ€ ๊ผผ๊ผผํ•œ ํ•ด์„ค๋“ค ๋•๋ถ„์— ์˜์–ดํ‘œํ˜„์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๋Š” ์ƒํ™ฉ๊นŒ์ง€ ์ƒ์ƒํ•ด๋ณผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ์•„์ฃผ ์ข‹์€ ์ฑ…์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค

mp3ํŒŒ์ผ๋„ ์žˆ์–ด์„œ ๋ฐœ์Œ์„ ๋“ค์–ด๋ณผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๊ณ , ๊ณต๋ถ€๋ฅผ ๋งˆ์น˜๊ณ  ์ ๊ฒ€ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๋ฆฌ๋ทฐํŽ˜์ด์ง€๊นŒ์ง€ ์žˆ์–ด์„œ ์ง„์งœ ์ •๋ฆฌํ•˜๊ธฐ์—๋„ ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ์ข‹์•„์š”! ๋ฌด์—‡๋ณด๋‹ค ์˜์–ด๋Š” ๊พธ์ค€ํ•จ์ด ์ค‘์š”ํ•˜๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜๋Š” 1์ธ์ธ๋ฐ ์ด ์ฑ…์œผ๋กœ๋Š” ์ง„์งœ ๊พธ์ค€ํ•จ ๋ฌด์กฐ๊ฑด ๊ฐ€๋Šฅํ•œ ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์•„์š”. (๋‚ด์šฉ์ด ์–ด๋ ต์ง€ ์•Š์•„์„œ ๊ฐ€๋ณ๊ฒŒ ๋ถ€๋‹ด ์—†์ด..!) ์•ž์œผ๋กœ๋„ ํ‹ฐ์ฒ˜์กฐ ์—ด์ผํ•ด์ฃผ์…”์„œ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์˜ํ™”, ๋“œ๋ผ๋งˆ๋กœ๋„ ๊ณ„์† ๋งŒ๋“ค์–ด์ฃผ์„ธ์—ฌ์–ด์–ด~~
2. ๋‚˜๋งŒ์˜ ๊ณต๋ถ€์ž๋ฃŒ/๋ฐฉ๋ฒ• ์ฐพ๊ธฐ
๋ฒš๊ฝƒ์ด ์˜์–ด๋กœ
๋ญ๋”๋ผ?

๋ฐ์ผ๋ฆฌ๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ! ๊ณง ๋ฒš๊ฝƒ ์‹œ์ฆŒ์ด ๋‹ค๊ฐ€์™€์š”๐ŸŒผ ๋ฒš๊ฝƒ ๋‚˜๋“ค์ด๊ฐˆ ๊ณ„ํš ์„ธ์šฐ๊ณ  ๊ณ„์‹ ๊ฐ€์š”? ๊ทธ๋ ‡๋‹ค๋ฉด ๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ๋ธ”์ด ๋ฒš๊ฝƒ์„ ๋ณด๋ฉฐ ์จ๋จน์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” '์˜์–ดํ‘œํ˜„'์„ ์•Œ๋ ค๋“œ๋ฆด๊ฒŒ์š”. ์ผ์ƒ ์–ด๋””์„œ๋“  '์‹ค์ „์˜์–ด'๋ฅผ ์•Œ๋ ค์ฃผ๋Š” ๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ๋ธ”๐Ÿ˜Ž



๐ŸŒผ๋ฒš๊ฝƒ ๊ด€๋ จ ์˜์–ดํ‘œํ˜„

- Cherry blossom: ๋ฒš๊ฝƒ

- Cherry blossom tree: ๋ฒš๋‚˜๋ฌด

- Cherry blossom festival: ๋ฒš๊ฝƒ ์ถ•์ œ

- Picnic: ์†Œํ’

- Spring picnic: ๋ด„ ์†Œํ’



๐ŸŒผ๋ฒš๊ฝƒ ์ถ•์ œ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์„ค๋ช…ํ•  ๋•Œ

A: Have you ever been to the cherry blossom festival in Yeouido?

B: No, I haven't. Is it worth going to?

A: Definitely. The blossoms are beautiful and there are lots of events.

B: Sounds like a wonderful experience.


A: ์—ฌ์˜๋„์—์„œ ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฒš๊ฝƒ ์ถ•์ œ ๊ฐ€๋ดค์–ด?

B: ์•„๋‹ˆ. ๊ฐˆ๋งŒํ•ด?

A: ์ •๋ง ์ข‹์•„. ๊ฝƒ๋“ค์€ ์•„๋ฆ„๋‹ต๊ณ  ์ด๋ฒคํŠธ๋„ ์ •๋ง ๋งŽ์•„.

B: ์ •๋ง ๋ฉ‹์ง„ ๊ฒฝํ—˜์ธ ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์•„.



๐ŸŒผ์†Œํ’๊ฐ€์ž๊ณ  ์ œ์•ˆํ•  ๋•Œ

A: What are your plans for this weekend?

B: I was thinking of having a spring picnic in the park. Want to join?

A: Sounds great. I'll bring some snacks.

B: Awesome, what time should we meet?


A: ์ด๋ฒˆ ์ฃผ๋ง์— ๋ญ ํ•  ๊ฑฐ์•ผ?

B: ๊ณต์›์œผ๋กœ ๋ด„ ์†Œํ’ ๊ฐˆ๊นŒ ์ƒ๊ฐ ์ค‘์ด์•ผ. ๊ฐ™์ด ๊ฐˆ๋ž˜?

A: ์ข‹์ง€. ๊ฐ„์‹ ๋„ ์ข€ ๊ฐ€์ ธ๊ฐˆ๊ฒŒ.

B: ๋Œ€๋ฐ•! ๋ช‡ ์‹œ์— ๋งŒ๋‚ ๊นŒ?



๐ŸŒผ๋ฒš๊ฝƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ๋‚˜๋ˆŒ ๋•Œ

A: Did you see the cherry blossoms on your way to work today?

B: Yes, they're so pretty. It really feels like spring now.

A: I know, I love this time of year.

B: Me too!


A: ์˜ค๋Š˜ ์ถœ๊ทผ๊ธธ์— ๋ฒš๊ฝƒ ํ•€ ๊ฑฐ ๋ดค์–ด?

B: ๋ดค์–ด, ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ์˜ˆ์˜๋”๋ผ. ์ด์ œ ์ง„์งœ ๋ด„์ด ์˜จ ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์•„.

A: ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๊ฒŒ. ์ผ ๋…„ ์ค‘ ์ด ์‹œ๊ธฐ๊ฐ€ ์ œ์ผ ์ข‹์•„.

B: ๋‚˜๋„

๋ฏธ๊ตญ์€ ๋ฐ์ดํŠธ๋ฅผ
์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ ๋ช…์ด๋ž‘ ํ•œ๋‹ค๊ณ ?!
์›์–ด๋ฏผํ‹ฐ์ฒ˜ Kayla๊ฐ€ '๋ฐ์ดํŠธ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๋ฏธ๊ตญ๊ณผ ํ•œ๊ตญ ๋ฌธํ™”์˜ ์ฐจ์ด์ '์„ ์„ค๋ช…ํ•ด์คฌ์–ด์š”. ์ €๋„ ์ฝ์–ด๋ณด๋ฉฐ ์ถฉ๊ฒฉ์„ ๋ฐ›์•˜๋Š”๋ฐ์š”๐Ÿ˜ฎ '๋ฐ์ดํŠธ' ๊ด€๋ จ ์˜์–ด ์ž๋ฃŒ๋ฅผ ๋ณผ ๋•Œ๋งˆ๋‹ค ์˜์•„ํ–ˆ๋˜ ๋ถ€๋ถ„์ด ํ•ด์†Œ๊ฐ€ ๋˜๋”๋ผ๊ณ ์š”! ํ•จ๊ป˜ ์ฝ์–ด๋ณด๋ฉฐ ๋ฏธ๊ตญ ๋ฌธํ™”๋ฅผ ์ดํ•ดํ•ด๋ด…์‹œ๋‹ค.


One thing that can be shocking to Korean students is when I tell them that Americans often โ€œdateโ€ more than one person at a time. 
ํ•œ๊ตญ ํ•™์ƒ๋“ค์ด ์ถฉ๊ฒฉ์„ ๋ฐ›์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ ์ค‘ ํ•˜๋‚˜๋Š” ๋ฏธ๊ตญ์ธ๋“ค์€ ๋งŽ์€ ๊ฒฝ์šฐ ํ•œ ๋ฒˆ์— ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ ๋ฐ์ดํŠธ๋ฅผ ํ•œ๋‹ค๋Š” ์ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. 

Part of the confusion is that Americans use a lot of different, vague expressions to describe their dating situation. We use phrases like, โ€œdating,โ€ โ€œseeing each other,โ€ โ€œwe're together,โ€ โ€œwe're a couple,โ€ โ€œhe's my boyfriend,โ€ etc. 
๋ฌธ์ œ๋Š” ๋ฏธ๊ตญ์ธ๋“ค์ด ๋ฐ์ดํŠธ ์ƒํ™ฉ์„ ํ‘œํ˜„ํ•  ๋•Œ ๋‹ค์–‘ํ•˜๊ณ  ๋ชจํ˜ธํ•œ ํ‘œํ˜„์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•œ๋‹ค๋Š” ์‚ฌ์‹ค์ธ๋ฐ์š”. "๋ฐ์ดํŠธ ์ค‘์ด์•ผ", "์„œ๋กœ ๋งŒ๋‚˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์–ด", "์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์ปคํ”Œ์ด์•ผ", โ€œ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ํ•จ๊ป˜ ์•ผโ€, "๊ทธ๋Š” ๋‚ด ๋‚จ์ž์นœ๊ตฌ์•ผ" ๋“ฑ์˜ ๊ตฌ๋ฌธ์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

Itโ€™s confusing even for native English speakers, but the important word is โ€œexclusive.โ€ Once someone says that youโ€™re a couple or youโ€™re a boyfriend and girlfriend, you only date that person. But before that decision, we often date a few people at the same time. 
์ด๋Š” ์‹ฌ์ง€์–ด ์˜์–ด ์›์–ด๋ฏผ์—๊ฒŒ๋„ ํ˜ผ๋ž€์Šค๋Ÿฌ์šด๋ฐ์š”. ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ๋‹จ์–ด๋Š” "๋…์ฐจ์ง€ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ"์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€ "๋„ˆํฌ๋Š” ์ปคํ”Œ์ด์•ผ" ๋˜๋Š” "๋‚จ์ž์นœ๊ตฌ์™€ ์—ฌ์ž์นœ๊ตฌ์•ผ"๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๋ฉด ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ๋งŒ ๋ฐ์ดํŠธํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฑฐ์ฃ . ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‚˜ ๊ทธ์ „์—๋Š” ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ ๋™์‹œ์— ๋ฐ์ดํŠธ๋ฅผ ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ๊ฐ€ ๋งŽ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
3. ์ผ์ƒ์—์„œ ์˜์–ด๋ฅผ ์ ‘ํ•˜๋Š” ์Šต๊ด€
์—ฌํ–‰์ง€์—์„œ๋„
์ผ์ƒ์—์„œ ์˜์–ด์ ‘ํ•˜๊ธฐ
ํ•ด์™ธ๋กœ ์—ฌํ–‰ ๋˜๋Š” ํ•œ๋‹ฌ์‚ด๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ์ค€๋น„ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐ์ผ๋ฆฌ๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ๊ฐ€ ๋งŽ๋”๋ผ๊ณ ์š”! ๊ทธ๋ ‡๋‹ค๋ฉด ์ค€๋น„ํ•  ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋‹จ 1๊ฐ€์ง€์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ฐ”๋กœ '์‹ค์ „์˜์–ด'์š”๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป ์ €๋Š” ๋ฐœ๋ฆฌ์—์„œ ์ผํ•˜๋ฉฐ 2๋‹ฌ ์‚ด๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š”๋ฐ์š”. ์•ฝ 2์ฃผ ๋งŒ์— '์‹ค์ „์˜์–ด'๋กœ ๋งŒ๋‚œ 5๊ฐ€์ง€ ๊ธฐํšŒ๋ฅผ ์†Œ๊ฐœํ• ๊ฒŒ์š”! 

1๏ธโƒฃ ์˜์–ด๋กœ ์š”๊ฐ€ ๋ฐฐ์šฐ๊ธฐ
๋ฐœ๋ฆฌํ•˜๋ฉด ์š”๊ฐ€์ฃ ! ๋Œ€๋ถ€๋ถ„ ์š”๊ฐ€ ์ˆ˜์—…์€ '์˜์–ด'๋กœ ์ง„ํ–‰๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋™์ž‘ ์†Œ๊ฐœ, ๋ช…์ƒ ์•ˆ๋‚ด๋„ ๋ชจ๋‘ '์˜์–ด'๋กœ์š”. ๋ฌผ๋ก  ์ดํ•ดํ•˜์ง€ ๋ชปํ•  ๋• ์Œค์„ ๋ณด๋ฉฐ ๋”ฐ๋ผํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹คโ˜€

2๏ธโƒฃ ์˜์–ด๋กœ ์ธ๋„๋„ค์‹œ์•„์–ด ์ˆ˜์—… ๋“ฃ๊ธฐ
๋ฐœ๋ฆฌ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค๊ณผ ๊ฐ„๋‹จํ•œ ํšŒํ™” ์ •๋„๋Š” ์ธ๋„๋„ค์‹œ์•„์–ด๋กœ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์–ด ํด๋ž˜์Šค๋ฅผ ์‹ ์ฒญํ–ˆ๋Š”๋ฐ์š”. ๋ฌผ๋ก  '์˜์–ด'๋กœ ์ง„ํ–‰๋ผ์š”. ์˜์–ด์™€ ์ธ๋„๋„ค์‹œ์•„๊ฐ€ ์„ž์ด๋ฉด ์ˆœ๊ฐ„ ์ •์‹ ์ด ํ˜ผ๋ฏธํ•ด์ง€๋”๋ผ๊ณ ์š”.๐Ÿคฃ

3๏ธโƒฃ ๋ฐœ๋ฆฌ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๊ณผ ์นœํ•ด์ง€๊ธฐ
๋ฐœ๋ฆฌ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์€ ๋ณดํ†ต ์˜์–ด๋ฅผ ์ž˜ํ•ด์š”. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ '์˜์–ด'๋กœ ์†Œํ†ต์ด ๊ฐ€๋Šฅํ•˜๋‹ค๋ฉด ๋ฐœ๋ฆฌ ๋ฌธํ™”, ํ•œ๊ตญ ๋ฌธํ™”๋ฅผ ๊ต๋ฅ˜ํ•˜๋ฉฐ ์นœํ•ด์งˆ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค!

4๏ธโƒฃ ์™ธ๊ตญ์ธ์—๊ฒŒ ์„ธ๊ณ„์—ฌ์„ฑ์˜ ๋‚  ์ถ•ํ•˜๋ฐ›๊ธฐ
3์›” 8์ผ์€ ์„ธ๊ณ„์—ฌ์„ฑ์˜ ๋‚ ์ด์—ˆ๋Š”๋ฐ์š”. ์ด๋ฒคํŠธ๋ฅผ ๋งŽ์ด ํ•˜๋”๋ผ๊ณ ์š”. ์ €๋„ ์˜์–ด๋กœ ์ถ•ํ•˜๋ฅผ ์ž”๋œฉ ๋ฐ›์•˜๋‹ต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. 

5๏ธโƒฃ ์˜์–ด๋กœ ์ง„ํ–‰ํ•˜๋Š” ๋””์ง€ํ„ธ๋…ธ๋งˆ๋“œ ๋ชจ์ž„ ์ฐธ์—ฌํ•˜๊ธฐ
๋ฐœ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋””์ง€ํ„ธ๋…ธ๋งˆ๋“œ์˜ ์„ฑ์ง€๋ผ๊ณ  ๋ถˆ๋ฆด ์ •๋„๋กœ ๋‹ค์–‘ํ•œ ๊ตญ์ ์˜ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ์ฝ”์›Œํ‚น์ŠคํŽ˜์ด์Šค์— ๋ชจ์—ฌ ์ผํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์–ด์š”. ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ๋งŒํผ ์ปค๋ฎค๋‹ˆํ‹ฐ์™€ ๋ชจ์ž„์ด ์ •๋ง ๋งŽ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค! ๋ฌผ๋ก  '์˜์–ด'๋กœ ์ง„ํ–‰๋ผ์š”. 

ใ€ฐ๏ธ
์ด๋Ÿฐ 5๊ฐ€์ง€ ๊ธฐํšŒ๋ฅผ ๋งŒ๋‚˜๋ฉด์„œ โ€˜์‹ค์ „์˜์–ดโ€™์˜ ์ค‘์š”์„ฑ์„ ๋งค ์ˆœ๊ฐ„ ๊นจ๋‹ซ๊ณ  ์žˆ์–ด์š”. ์˜์–ด๊ถŒ๊ตญ๊ฐ€๋„ ์•„๋‹Œ๋ฐ ๋ง์ด์ฃ . ํ•œ๋‹ฌ์‚ด๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๊ณ„ํšํ•˜์‹ ๋‹ค๋ฉด ์ €์™€ ๊ฐ™์ด โ€™์‹ค์ „์˜์–ด'๋ฅผ ์ค€๋น„ํ•ด์„œ ๋งŽ์€ ๊ธฐํšŒ๋ฅผ ๋ˆ„๋ ค๋ณด์•„์š”. (์—ฌํ–‰๋„ ๋ฌผ๋ก  ํฌํ•จโœˆ๏ธ)
4. Study with ๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ๋ธ”
โœจ 4์›” [์˜จ๋ผ์ธ์ฑŒ๋ฆฐ์ง€] ์˜คํ”ˆ!

4์ฃผ ๋™์•ˆ '๋งค์ผ' ์‹ค์ „์˜์–ด๋ฅผ ๊ณต๋ถ€ํ•˜๋Š” [์˜จ๋ผ์ธ์ฑŒ๋ฆฐ์ง€]๊ฐ€ 3/20(์›”) ์˜คํ›„ 6์‹œ์— ์˜คํ”ˆํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

์ฑŒ๋ฆฐ์ง€๋Š” 4/3(์›”) ~ 4/30(์ผ)๊นŒ์ง€ ์ง„ํ–‰๋ผ์š”. 4์›”์—๋Š” '์‹ค์ „์˜์–ด ์‹ค๋ ฅ'์„ ๋งค์ผ ๋Š˜๋ ค๋ด์š”!
Notice!
๐Ÿ’ฌ ๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ๋ธ” ์ธ์Šคํƒ€๊ทธ๋žจ์—์„œ ๊ณต๋ถ€์ž๋ฃŒ, ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•, ๊ฟ€ํŒ์„ ์–ป์–ด๊ฐˆ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์–ด์š”. (์—ฌ๊ธฐ)์—์„œ ํ™•์ธํ•˜์„ธ์š”!

๐Ÿ’ฌ ์นœ๊ตฌ์—๊ฒŒ ๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ๋ธ”๋ ˆํ„ฐ๋ฅผ ์†Œ๊ฐœํ•˜๊ณ  ํ•จ๊ป˜ ์˜์–ด๊ณต๋ถ€ํ•˜์„ธ์š”. ๐Ÿ‘‰https://learnable.kr/newsletter๐Ÿ‘ˆ ๋งํฌ๋ฅผ ๋ณต์‚ฌํ•ด์„œ ๋ณด๋‚ด์ฃผ๊ธฐ!
์˜ค๋Š˜๋„ 126๋ฒˆ์งธ ๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ๋ธ”๋ ˆํ„ฐ์™€ ํ•จ๊ป˜ํ•ด์ฃผ์…”์„œ ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค๐Ÿ’›
writers : ๐Ÿค ๋งค๋‹ˆ์ € ๋ฆฐ์ง€, ๐Ÿ˜Žํ‹ฐ์ฒ˜์กฐ

๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ๋ธ”๋ ˆํ„ฐ์— ๋ฐ”๋ผ๋Š” ์ ์ด๋‚˜ ์•„์‰ฌ์šด ์ ์€ (์ด๊ณณ)์— ๋‚จ๊ฒจ์ฃผ์„ธ์š”.
๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ๋ธ”์€ ๋ฐ์ผ๋ฆฌ๋Ÿฌ๋„ˆ๋“ค์˜ ํ”ผ๋“œ๋ฐฑ์„ ์‚ฌ๋ž‘ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

๊ตฌ๋…๊ณผ ์ง€๋‚œ ๋‰ด์Šค๋ ˆํ„ฐ ํ™•์ธ์€ (์—ฌ๊ธฐ)์—์„œ!
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